Wish there was a Rant folder!

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wish there was a Rant folder!
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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 11:02am
I am so upset right now.
At this moment, I am done with my husband. He is so disgusting and not the person I want to be with.
As you might know, he was looking at porn and that is how our computer got viruses and is not running well.
I asked him about it only after I noticed something wrong with the computer. He was not even going to tell me he was on looking at it.
He promised me he would not look at this stuff anymore. Especially on the computer! He lied and did not keep his promise. He does not see what the big deal is??
The big deal is, now we had nasty pop up coming on the computer. What is Andrew had been on?
He said he was bored and desperate. Saying because I did not "give him any" Well, for one, its that time of the month and it aint happening! And we just had sex the day before AF. I swear, what else can I do??
Now I refuse to do anyhting wioth him. Let him have his porn if it means so much to him and that I am not good enough for him. He siad he wants a divorce then?
I sit here now in tears because this just disgusts me that not having sex everyday means you need porn!
I am sorry for putting this all out here on the board but I dont have anyone else to talk to about this.
Am I being stupid to get so upset about it?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-23-2005 - 9:21pm

Mel I am sorry you are going though this. I know what you are going though. My husband does look at porn. I think alot of people here are trying to help but some are not much help if you know what I mean.

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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 10:41pm
Mel,
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Thu, 06-23-2005 - 11:03pm
Thank you all for coming on here and posting things that you would normally would not post. It means a lot.
Thank you Traci for the Dr Phil thing, I did read those to him and we will discuss this more later when Andrew is asleep.
Again, thank you all for the posts.
I am still in the process of fixing the computer and can only get on a few times a day if that, so I will try and get on again soon.

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Registered: 11-08-2004
Fri, 06-24-2005 - 8:37am
Wow - I had no idea that so many husbands out there had this "problem". It makes me feel a little better because we went thru the same thing a few years ago. I felt the same way you do Mel. But I didn't just want to tell him he couldn't look at porn anymore, I wanted him to not want to do it (if that makes any sense). It didn't make me feel any better that he wouldn't do it just because I told him not to. Anyways, it's been a few years and as far as I know he doesn't look at porn, but I don't check up on him. I guess I really don't want to know. It's sad really that men and women have such different perspectives on sex.
Hope things work out for you. Your other posts make your dh sounds like a great guy : )
Wendy

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