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| Tue, 04-06-2004 - 7:15pm |
well here is a small bit of the situation,, my dd dances with another girl,, has for 9 years now,, the mother and I have been friends for quite awhile,, at 1st we were just aquaintainces and then we would talk on the phone, hang out at all the dance things and ride together. Since last yr she has become friends with another mother too, and they talk quite a bit. I have felt like a 3rd wheel around them, they kind of formed a click and kind of snub me. She doesn't talk to me on the phone anymore, she doesnt answer my emails, and we used to bring home her girls after dance and now she just picks them up, without ever saying that she didn't need us to do it anymore.
I sent her a card in the mail,, just one of those you are my friend cards with a small note saying that I thought our friendship has faded and that I didn't know why,, I really don't! I never did anything. Well my question is,, she never answered it,, I mean she didn't call or write or email to say ''hey that's not true'' or anything.
I have no idea why,, but am I to just guess that she no longer wants to be my friend? I mean I don't want to be a nag and say something,,, what would you do? and what do you honestly think?
THANKS SO MUCH,,,


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friends like that are hard to find, and when you've got one you know it and you'll never let it go, but the rest of them? screw it!! lol
just had to agree with ya,
clarity
yes thanks and I don't mind the honest opinion,, but you seemed to miss that we do have alot in common and we were friends,, we each have 3 kids,, both of our kids dance together and go to competition together,, we live near each other, we like the same things,,, I am not merly an aquanitce I have known each other for alomost 10 years!
I agree that life is too short,, too short to hide behind un answered phone calls and not telling the truth,, If you know you don't want to be friends with someone buck up and say so not just drop them like a hot potato,,, by the way I have been meaning to ask you,,, I hope your day is better and you don't still ''HATE'' your kids,,
and o yes, i'm MUCH better now, thankfully those "i'm gonna scream" moments pass! dh gave me some time off and we had a great easter celebration today and let the kids just go wild, it was awesome. they had soooo much fun and so did we. nothing helps like a good party, lol
and again, sorry for my misunderstanding, completely missed the depth of the friendship, i thought it was just a social relationship because your dds are in dance together and perhaps the other mom just didn't want to be friends. when i say i drop aquaintances i'm talking about people who i've gone to the park with once or twice, or knew from storytime or preschool and had a playdate or two and then never pursued it further. if it was a longstanding friendship then i'd definately owe them some kind of reason for ending the friendship.
have a good night,
clarity
clarity
It seems like she probably likes to be with new mom better, well you got us here online to chat with!!
I say just watch her and her new friend and see how their wonderful friendship turns out.
Wytchy
Luna
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