Dealing with difficult co-workers
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|Sun, 03-01-2009 - 7:19pm|
Over the summer, I asked for advice concerning two co-workers who seemed to have nothing good to say about our new administrator. I wish I could say that things have gotten better but they haven't. They both continue to be negative, bad mouth and berate our administrator to me. It's gotten to be such an annoyance to me that I don't stay in my classroom or office before school, during lunch or after school. I find places to sequester myself where I know they won't find me or I can converse with other staff members. I'm sure that's the coward's way out, but these two are driving me nuts!
One of them is a second-year teacher who is known to drag her personal issues to work with her. She's still quite young as far as teaching goes (she's about 24 or so) and she seems to have this need to be the "cool" teacher. She's had a few run-ins with the admin and I'm beginning to think many of her issues with our admin is the fact that the admin is a woman. I stupidly allowed this co-worker to add me to Facebook and I'm almost ashamed to read some of her status updates when we've had a meeting of some sort. The things she's said about our admin are things that could easily get her into serious trouble.
The other co-worker can't take a hint. I blatantly told him one day to speak with our admin if he had questions or issues about the subject of a recent inservice, but he still searches me out to complain about how our admin is running things. He claimed he would but as far as I can tell, he never did. He also knows that I'm on board with all the changes our admin has put into place, yet he still feels the need to draw me into his issues with her.
I've been so frustrated with both of them at times that I've considered going in to the admin's office and asking her if I can discuss the situation and the problems I've had with these people. I'd try to negotiate with both of them if I thought it were possible to do so but they are both such stubborn-minded people that I don't think it would work. Should I go in and speak with our admin about this situation?