More about my life not so much teaching

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Registered: 11-05-2006
More about my life not so much teaching
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Fri, 10-22-2010 - 10:11pm

My husband and I have been having ups and downs for a long time now.

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Sat, 10-23-2010 - 8:45am

I'm sorry your husband is not being more supportive of you.

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Sat, 10-23-2010 - 10:38pm

I've felt much like you do now but I can't tell you what to do. I can just tell you what happened.

I have been at the point where I hated my job and everything with it, the administration,

Sherry
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Registered: 11-05-2006
Sun, 10-24-2010 - 8:40pm

Sherry, thank you so much.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-29-2010 - 11:58am

I agree with Sherry. Men just think so differently from women, they often don't get what we need from them and we have a hard time coming right out and asking for it. I know I do!

When times are tough at work or other areas of your life it carries over into your marriage. I'm sure the opposite is true as well. I'd take one issue at a time and slowly "pull the weeds".

I've been there......am there......hang in there :)

Judy

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Registered: 05-15-2009
Fri, 10-29-2010 - 12:25pm

I'm so sorry to hear that things are stressful right now.

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Registered: 06-04-2003
Sat, 10-30-2010 - 3:43pm

Okay, I'm not married, so I can't really tell you what I would do, but I will say this. You had better not be saying this same thing ten years from now. My mother has been miserably married for 12 years and every damn WEEK I have to hear how hard it is and how its not working and how frustrated she feels. Yes, she has the right feel this way and again, not married so I don't know how much I can really understand, but please dont waste time trying to work this out.

Do it for you, the baby, the marriage, your career and your OWN SANITY. I'm just saying, I've been worn out by the complaining my mother does and yet she wont even try to do

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Sat, 10-30-2010 - 3:44pm
I didn't mean don't waste time as in dont work it out, I meant dont drag your feet on it, get to working it out NOW. You sanity is worth it.
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Sat, 10-30-2010 - 3:46pm

Your marriage is worth it. Work it ouf and PRONTO.