19 and a single mom
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| Wed, 09-28-2011 - 12:12pm |
Hi :) My name is Katherine and I have a year old daughter named Jacie (Jay-cee). Since before she was born you might as well say I have been a single mom. Yes, her father was there when I was pregnant but he didn't do anything for her. Instead of getting a job to save up some money, he sat on his ass. Instead of trying to find a place for us to live, he sat on his ass. I think you get the picture. Anyway, I kept him around because he kept saying he would try to get a job and try to do better. But the relationship was just to the point where we were acquaintances, we weren't "in love" anymore, at least I wasn't. He was physically abusive and verbally abusive. I have permanent back problems and permanent emotional problems because of it. I kicked him out of mine and my daughter's life about 5 months ago and ever since Jacie and I have been happier and healthier than ever. I just wnted to give whoever wanted to read a description of how I became a single mom and how I overcame the abuse. Being a teen mom, I also don't have many friends left because everyone turned their backs on me when they found out I was pregnant. I would love to have someone to talk to besides my family and my mom. I mean it's great and all having her around to talk to but sometimes she just doesn't understand. So, if there are any takers you can message me on here. I wouldn't mind making new friends.
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Thats good to hear =] Dexter has
Welcome to the Board Katherine!
I'm Cheyenne(19), Mommy to Carsyn(3.5 months) and Engaged to Dexter(25)
I also love your little ones name. Sounds like you have figured out whats best for your and your little one and that you two are the most important things now!
Hey Katherine...I am going to be a 19 year old mom in april, and i am kind of having the same thing as you with the father of your baby. except my boyfriend isnt abusive so i cant relate to that. I was wondering how did you know that you werent "in love" with him anymore. Im afraid that i dont love my boyfriend anymore after almost 2 years...he acts like a kid all of the time...i used to too but im growing up for my baby...i would like to talk to you about your expeirences and all that stuff :smileyhappy:
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