Another baby girl lost to SIDS :(

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Registered: 02-24-2009
Another baby girl lost to SIDS :(
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 10:52pm
Im not sure if everyone remembers but awhile back i posted on here about friends of Curtis & I that lost there baby girl to SIDS. Well we just found out late last night, that Curtis's cousin who just had a baby girl, lost there baby to SIDS also.
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Registered: 01-22-2009
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 8:49am
no, its not wrong, youre pregnant so obvioulsy its harder, and baby funerals have got to be tough, im sure the family would understand if you send them a sympathy card or something, maybe send food to their house? i know my mom does that to help the family out. So that way you wont feel as bad and they might undersdtand you care but cant be there.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 02-24-2009
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 10:54am
well this one would not have bothered me so bad, except for the fact that i baby sat this lil angel, and she ate and burped good for me, and then went right back to sleep.. the last baby funeral we went to we had not had the chance to meet the lil girl yet. Plus according to my ultra sound, im having a girl.. two baby girls have already died.. idk what i would do if we lost ours :(. But ya thats a really good idea... but Curtis still really wants me to come to the visiting hours tonight with him. idk what im gonna do yet. But ya when curtis told me about the baby dieing the other night, i wanted to start crying, but right then (even though she hadnt moved barely at all, all night) our baby started kickin me like crazy and would not stop for like 5 min straight, i couldnt help but laugh then.. it was as if she was saying "im right here mommy!" lol. anyways im done rambling now haha. thanks for the advice.

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