Getting so close

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Registered: 03-09-2008
Getting so close
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Thu, 10-08-2009 - 2:51pm

So we are getting SO close to the due date and i feel like i have a million and one things to do. But with working full time and being 35 weeks pregnant i feel like by the time i get home help Bj finish dinner and eat I can barely move! I feel bad cole is wanting to go outside and I really dont mind to but I just dont have the energy to chase him around like he wants i have tried other activites like coloring (that just ends up on my walls) or rolling the ball across the floor with him but he wants mommy to chase him and I just cant...I am SO afraid that he is going ot start getting really realyl jealous but i am not sure what else to do? Any suggestions? But we are getting excited and Cole will be TWO on the 23rd of this month! It seems like everything is happening SO fast and i just cant keep up financially with it! His birthday party and then the baby plus making sure all the bills are paid i am sinking so fast and we arent even spending money like that!!!!! AHHHH (sorry that was my rant for the day lol)

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Registered: 02-24-2009
Thu, 10-08-2009 - 3:59pm

I TOTALLY understand what you mean about having a million and one things to do, and the due date so fast approaching. i have less then 3 weeks lefts... like omg where did the time go lol.


I feel for ya, i have not been working for quite awhile now (cause of a sciatic nerve(sp?), i have been on sick leave). And try not to feel to bad about your lil guy, you are doing the most you can do. I mean holy its hard being pregnant. I mean since im on sick leave i dont even work, but getting stuff ready for the baby and all the house work seems like too much for me on some days. All my dizzy spells and such dont help (i guess my iron is a lil low?), but jumpins just the extra weight is hard enough to handle.


I think you are doing a amazing job to keep up with a lil one & work full time & be preggo all at once.. holy thumbs up to you (Y). Money is always going to be tight, especially when you have lil ones, but im sure everything will work out (Y). Best of luck with everything! if ya ever wanna chat, im usually on here every day haha.. oh ya and are u on my facebook?

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Fri, 10-09-2009 - 11:16am
Im not sure
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Registered: 03-06-2008
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 1:35pm

I know pretty much exactly how you feel. Except that I dont work I go to school full time, and have no income because Seth doesn't pay child support or give me money.


Just remember that Cole is only 2 and he wont remember or care if he doesnt get quite as much as you'd like for his birthday or christmas, and the baby wont even notice if you get him anything or not.


Have

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Registered: 02-24-2009
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 5:40pm
well i have ya on my facebook too, i was not sure since there was no pic or anything.. how come ya dont have pics on yours? Im picture crazy as im sure you can tell from my facebook lol. wow that does sound busy. My baby is due october 28th, my birthday is november 6th, then x-mas, then curtis's bday two days after x-mas. financially its going to be rough, but im sure everything will all pull together. I know what ya mean about being independant,
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Thu, 10-15-2009 - 3:55pm
No names yet well we both seem to like Ayden(Aiden). But that is all we have coem up with lol it always takes us forever :) I know that he wont notice but i feel like if i dont get him things that he wants or get him alot that i am being a bad mom somehow i know it is silly and completly ridiculous because my family goes INSANE at chirstmas and birthdays with him...Last year he had so many toys i just stored most of them away and we just opened some on rainy boaring days :) Plus we dont ever really buy winter clothes for him because his birthday is in October and Christmas in December. But anyways the baby wont be getting a whole lot this christmas we still had and have
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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 5:20pm

Ayden is a cute name. Thats what my cousin just named her lil guy that was born in september, but spelled Aiden. Lol sounds like your family is kinda like mine, mom spent over $500 just on my baby shower. I told her it was ridiculous, but she dont listen lol. I cant even imagine what this baby is going to get come X-mas, i mean gee she aint even born yet haha. Curtis & i have agreed we are not going to buy much of anything for the baby this year.. maybe some more diapers haha. thats a really good idea for something to do on a rainy day.

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