He asked ne to marry him!! (omg)

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He asked ne to marry him!! (omg)
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Sat, 10-17-2009 - 11:37pm

This is gonna sound crazyy cause it crazzy even to me lol.


My bf Naldo asked me to marry him!! ahh I'm so happy. But here is the crazzy part...we've only been together since 9.21.09 but known eachother way before that. I know that he loves me to no end and so do I. He is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with, this I knew since the first day we started dating.


This is even more crazy; he wants to marry me in 3 months....when he comes back from army basic training. It will be a court wedding, and then a bigger one later on when we plan it and stuff. Then he wants me to move with him wherever he's gonna be stationed at, we will have our own house and all that. He comes back December 18 or 19 he'll be here for 2 weeks. (or less if we do get married). Now I want to, I want to marry this boy. But my life is going to change so much...I would have to move to another state and all that. I've talked to a couple of my close girlfriends and sister and they all say the same thing...that its too fast,that i'm too young, but to follow my heart and do whatever makes me happy. They know he is a really nice person and has a future, and will treat me like his princess.


He asked me to

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Sun, 10-18-2009 - 4:35am

CONGRATS!!!!!!!


Me and Alex were only together 5 months before he asked me to marry him. Were having a long engagement though.


Does Jayden like Naldo? Moving to a different state will be hard especially with Jayden being so young and being used to his surroundings. But if you love Naldo then go for it but I think you should wait longer than two months for your wedding.


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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 9:59am

OMG I'm soooo happy for you. He did it!!!

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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 12:46pm

I don't know you very well so you can completely disregard my opinion if you want to, I just wanted to put in my two cents.


I think that sometimes you just know. That being said, I also think that you need to know someone in all aspects of their life before legally becoming joined to them. Life has a lot of ups and downs and relationships evolve over time. When you're married you can't just break up and go your seperate ways if you grow apart, you have to legally seperate and there are costs and problems that come from that. You wouldn't be the first person to get married so quickly, and not all of those marriages last, but not all of them fail either. Listen to your heart, but make sure to listen to your head too.


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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 3:46pm

Thanks evryone for your opinions. I have alot of thinking to do. But I really do feel like this is something I want. I feel it in my heart that this is the right thing to do.


Now I just need to talk to my mom about it....wish me luck lol. =]

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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 4:59pm
aww congrats!! So exciting :D. I think you should just follow your heart, whatever happens we are all here for ya! Good luck telling your mom (Y).

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Sun, 10-18-2009 - 8:05pm

Thanks! I am getting more and more excited by the day lol.


and thanks I just don't know how she's gonna take it. but i hope she'll be here for me no matter what.

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Registered: 02-24-2009
Sun, 10-18-2009 - 8:44pm

I can imagine. I can't wait until the day that Curtis & I can afford to have our dream wedding :D.


And im sure she will take it good.. maybe not at first, but your still her daughter. I mean whew after telling parents your pregnant (when u were), getting married should be a breeze haha jk.

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Mon, 10-19-2009 - 9:53pm

Well she actually didn't. She's the type of person that wants to control everything and everybody. She dosen't like the fact that I want to get married already. & I'm dealing with some bs with the bd. Cause he don't want me to take Jayden outta the state. and says if I do he'll try to fight for full custody and take my son from me and my mom has his back if he wants to do that. So now Idk if i'm ever gonna be able to marry my man and move. I'm so crushed right now. and idk what to do. =/ ugh.

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Tue, 10-20-2009 - 3:57pm
Hey, hope you dont mind if I ask..Is Jaydens dad still around? Does he make a effort to see him?
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Tue, 10-20-2009 - 8:37pm

hi. Yes he is still around. He usually

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