trust isues

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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 7:58am
hey im atti and im 22 weeks today and ben with my almost husben (we are getting marryed in a month)!! btw im 18. any ways my sister amd me are every close and she back so she can help me. she wonts me to go with her this week to help her pack but im scared if i leave him here with his friends alone he going to do somthing. he chited on every girl be fore me and 3 of his friends have gf but chit so im scared he's going to and i dont know if he will iv bem cheted on befor and i know the saying once a chit always a chit!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO????

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Thu, 03-22-2012 - 11:57pm
Have you been doing a lot of shopping for your litle one yet?
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Wed, 03-21-2012 - 7:19am
I'm already jroping so they thml the get my DD Wong
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Tue, 03-20-2012 - 11:58pm
May would be very early so hopfully she stays in there. A lot of babies go head down at this point. They have plenty of time to move around still. First babies usually come between weeks 40-42. So I wouldn't be surprised if she is an august baby
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Tue, 03-20-2012 - 6:38pm
july 30 but she will be here in jun or may she alrady head down
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Tue, 03-20-2012 - 2:53pm
Well that's good he has neve. Given you a reason to not trust him. Just be careful and make sure
It's the best choice for you and your little girl. By the way when is your due date? I am 25 weeks with a little girl due July 4th
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Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:22am
thaank u yes i do it a girl we are nameing her mmary maeonna!!! and i trust him but his friends do stuped stuff. and i rally dont trust any guy bc of my child past but he said that when u trul love some one u don't chitch! every one says he diff with me i mean he ask me to marry him in forent of every one. it just his past he never gave me a reason not to trust him
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Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:07am
thank u and im having a girl we are nameing her mary maeonna! and we have and he says when u truly love some one u dont chit. and i really dont trust any gays cause of my past growing up. and i do trust him but his friends do stuped stuff. i love him and he never givin me a reason not to but its my past and his. i mean every one says his diff with me. i mean he ask me to marry him in forent of every one so!
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 10:55pm
Hello Atti and welcome!! Congrats on you're pregnancy. Do you know the babies gender? How does your fiancé feel about being a father? I agree that trust is VERY important all the time in a relationship and def a factor to consider when getting married. I know there is divorce as a popular option nowadays but waiting untill you are 100 percent with no doubts is the best way. I agree guys around 18-25 are really not very mature and can get nervous or freaked out by commitment. The best thing you can do is talk to each other about the trust issues you have.
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 11:26am
Generally, males don't seem to fully mature until they're in their mid-20s. Ultimately, whether his friends are around him or not, he is responsible for his actions. If it was me, I would hold off on marriage until you trust him completely (even when he's with his friends). I know it might not seem like a big deal since you love him, but trust is huge when you're considering marriage. If you're not sure, I would wait. If he loves you, he will respect that and be able to show you that you can trust him. Have you told him that you're concerned about his cheating history?
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 11:04am
i trust him but his friends make him diff. and off and on since 3rd gread so almost 10 years and every one says he diff with me. so i dont know and he ask me to marry him when we get back to gether after 2 weeks and ask me to move in we ben now this time almost 7 months and thank u

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