14 and having a baby

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Registered: 08-17-2008
14 and having a baby
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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 5:18pm
hey my name is Becca!
i just turned 14!
and i ma having a baby:(!
I'm not really happy about it
I'm so sacred i have no idea on what to do?

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Registered: 05-31-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 5:40pm

Hi Becca, and welcome to the board! I'm Callie, I'll be 15 on the 26th, and my SO is Abry.

I was 14 when I got pregnant, however I miscarried. Have you considered other options? How far along are you? Have you told your parents? Are you still with the father? And how has the pregnancy been so far?

Hope to hear from you soon!




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Registered: 06-09-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 6:01pm
Hi i'm kristina and i'm 19. I have a 7week old daughter and a fiance kevin. How are you feeling? When did you find out? What did your parents say? What did the father say? Are you all together? Do you know how far along you are? Oh yeah WELCOME TO THE BOARD AND CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PREGNANCY!
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Registered: 06-03-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 11:27pm

Hi!


I'm ashley 17. and 25 weeks pregnant. I'm due November 30th.


I know exactly how you feel. I'm so excited for Brodey, but I'm also very scared. I can imagine you might be more scared because you're younger then I am. Does the FOB (father of the baby) know? Or your family?

 

 

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Registered: 08-14-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 12:37am

i was in the same situation but i was kinda excited


im now 15 and she is a month and a half


almost 2 months...........i got pregnant right after i turned 14 pretty much........and truthfully i love it but u need alot of support and help well you dont NEED it but its really useful you will make it though


we all do

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Registered: 08-17-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 1:49am
i am 12 weeks!
my parents kicked me out of the house
so i had to move in with my boyfriend
that like pretty much uses me for sex:/
but i am going to keep the baby and live with him and his family!
cause my family are not happy about this at all!
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Registered: 06-09-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 3:00pm
I'm sorry that your fannily was not supportive and kicked you out. How old is your boyfriend? Is his family supportive? Do you want a boy or girl? Are you still in school? What are your plans?
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Registered: 08-14-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 11:44pm

im sorry


there is like these home thingys i saw on the internet for teens with babies or whatnot if you dont like where you are and they help you out alot........i was going to go until my mom realized i wasnt getting an abortion and gave up............but that is just if you want......=]

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 3:09pm

hi im kayla... im 16 and i have an 8 week old son named alex... are u and the FOB together? if u dont have a lot of support at home this is the right place to be...these girls are amazing!!! if u ever need anything feel free to email me!!


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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 4:35pm

Hey well i was 15 as was my bf when i found out i was already 4 week pregnant.. my mom and stepdad were huge christians.. as my stepdad was also a MAJOR control freak.. he had always said to me and my sister he'd rather we burned down the house then to ever come home pregnant.. so yeah


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Registered: 07-14-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 9:28pm
i am 18 years old but i had my son the first month of my freshman year and i was 14 also. if your not happy i mean im sure your nervous but if your not really ready have you considered adoption it is the most absolutely wonderful thing i think to be so selfless you would give your baby to someone who could better provide for them i mean it isnt foster care its adoption you can pick a family well whatever you decide congratulations and keep your head up theres nothing like having a child it will change your world entirely for the most part in a good way. GOOD LUCK BIG TIME congrats again and enjoy this time i regret nothing more than not enjoying my pregnancy



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