15 anddd im really worried. please help?

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Registered: 12-22-2009
15 anddd im really worried. please help?
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 1:46pm
okay well, i know its a horrible thing to do. and i regret it soooo much. but ive been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now. and we had sex around the 16th of december. the thing is though, we both wanted to take as much precaution as we possibly could, so of course a condom was neccesary. The other thng however was, we both told each other that if we were going to do this, we didnt want any seamen (idk how to spell?) in the condom the whole time it was being put to use. we also checked before if it had any holes, which id did not, and we checked after words by puttingwater in it, and also didnt have any holes, i know its a wierd method, but it sounded pretty safe. i just wanted to know if anyone thought it sounded like we had a high risk of being pregnant? im not so sure. but i just got really scared. im not on any birth control, only because if
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Registered: 09-24-2008
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 2:26pm

Stop worrying your not pregnant, If there was no hole in the condom and no semen either theres no way you became pregnant so relax.

but i think this obviously tells you that your not ready to be sexually active. And when you and your boyfriend decide that you are ready first get on birth control AND continue to use a condom that way you are double protected and if one method fails you have a back up.


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Registered: 12-26-2009
Sat, 12-26-2009 - 10:03pm

I think you should rethink doing this anymore until you are ready because i was your age and i wasnt ready and i was a teen mom and now my kids are grown but it was very hard. Just be very carefull and think things through i wish i had i went through alot when i was your age that i could have avoided if i just had waited .

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Registered: 12-28-2008
Mon, 12-28-2009 - 1:59pm
I'm not trying to be rude, but why would doing all that give you a high risk of being pregnant? Obviously, its most likely you're not. On the other hand, it sounds like you are far from being mature enough to handle sex. If you decide to have sex, you should atleast be mature enough to handle the thought of getting pregnant, because there is always a possibility.

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Registered: 12-30-2009
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 9:48pm

hey girllyyy :)