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Registered: 07-31-2008
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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:43pm
So mi and mi boyfriend did have sex and i think i am pregnant.... im so happy and i hope i get a babie to play with and take care of and luv. its gunnaa be fun!!! mi periud is 4 weeks late but i cant afford a test to find out if i realy am. what shuld i do?

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Registered: 07-28-2008
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:45pm

I'm so bummed that you didn't take our advice! I'm glad you're excited but I really don't think you realize what you're getting yourself into! If you don't even have enough money to buy a pregnancy test how in the world are you going to support a child? tsk tsk. Good luck, hope all works out for you.


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Registered: 09-18-2007
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:51pm
If you can't afford a pregnancy test than how the *$^# can you afford a baby?
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Registered: 07-31-2008
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:02am
mi boyfrind can gita job in a year and i ca git on medicaid and foodstampz and wic right? im sure mi parents will help 2

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Registered: 07-31-2008
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:35am
we been 2getha 4 5 months now thank u very much. u dun have 2 be such a bwurd 2 mi. how old r u neway to tell mi tht i was stupid

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Registered: 01-07-2006
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:48am
So this is what my tax dollars are paying for? Pretty irresponsible of you you know. If you cannot afford a pregnancy test, then why the HEDHS did you go and get pregnant? Have you considered other options?



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Registered: 05-08-2008
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:49am

Normally I would be like "Congratulations" but ... umm hi ... a baby to "play" with ... you can't play with babies when they are first born ... and god knows you have to do a hell of a lot more with them then that.

Apparently you have been here before and people have said it wouldn't be a good idea to have a baby, they tried to advise you that isn't easy I am sure.

It isn't a walk in the park, they cry, the eat, they poop. They need diapers and sorry but there really is no government aid to help you out with diapers. That is their day.

As far as parents helping and BF not getting a job until a year from now ... why would you want to rely on your parents? And I don't think they are going to be incredibly thrilled if they know this was planned.

Think about this ... what is so great about having a baby? They are adorable and as they get older you can play with them but that isn't all there is to it. No one here would trade their babies for anything but they will most likely tell you that it isn't easy.

And have you thought about what you will do if something is wrong with the baby? What if there is a genetic problem? What if the child is born with one of many of the common issues such as a cleft? How do you plan on getting through that?

A baby isn't fun and games.

I do have to say that if you are pregnant I don't think anyone here will have a problem answering questions for you and being there for you but seriously ... think about this. What has been done can't be undone and there is going to be a lot to do once that baby arrives (and before).

Happy and Healthy 9 months to you and I hope all goes well for you and that baby.

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Registered: 09-13-2005
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 4:09am
WOW. NOT A GOOD IDEA HUN. LIKE OTHERS HAVE SAID, IF YIU CANT AFFORD A PREGNANCY TEST HOW CAN YOU AFFORD A BABY? I WOLD REALLY SUGGEST THAT YO FIND OUT IF YOU ARE OR NOT. IF YOUR NOT, PLEASE LISTEN TO US AND WAIT. THIS IS NOT A GAME. IM PRETTY SURE YOUR PARENTS WONT BE TO THRILLED ABOUT HAVING TO RAISE AND PAY FOR YOUR BABY.
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Registered: 09-02-2005
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 3:49pm

Not a good idea at such a young age.

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In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 6:19pm

Hi, Everyone...


Just a quick reminder that we all come from different places in our lives, many members not expecting to end up on this board, others wanting to. It's not up to us to judge anyone's circumstances, or to knock attitude, thoughts, plans, or even spelling.


Please be kind -- give advice, kindly, or move on to another thread if you feel it's not in your best interest to respond.


Thanks,


 



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Registered: 08-27-2008
In reply to: wantingbebe12
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 6:30pm
ITA!!!!!!!
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