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Registered: 08-02-2008
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Sat, 08-02-2008 - 11:42pm

Hi, I'm Hannah. I'm 15, I'm pregnant but idk how far along I am 'cuz I haven't told my parents yet so I haven't been to the drs. I had another account thing hanah4293 but something happened and I couldn't get back on. I was really,really scared when I posted those other things but I've been talkin to my bf who's been makin me feel so much better =] I'm going to keep the baby he wants to to.

 

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Registered: 05-21-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Sat, 08-02-2008 - 11:48pm

Hi! Welcome! Im Zenycha(16) mommy to Jayden(1) and SO/FOB is Berto(19). Great to meet you and Dont worry im sure your parents will support you:)


Good luck on telling them:D

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Registered: 06-22-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 12:59am
Hi welcome. I'm Cheyenne, 16.
Don't stress, everything will be fine
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Make sure to keep us posted on everything!

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Registered: 06-12-2005
In reply to: cakes420
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 1:16am

Hello and welcome! Congrats on your pregnancy! Not to lecture you or anything but it's really important to get to the DR so you can get

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Registered: 08-02-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 7:17pm

=[ my bf is acting so weird I know he's scared to but idk.

 

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Registered: 06-03-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 12:36am

Hi! I'm Ashley.

 

 

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Registered: 08-02-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 12:42am

I don't know really I think my mom will probably cry or yell or maybe both

 

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Registered: 08-04-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 12:51am

hi!


I know it may be really hard for you to hear him say he's not ready, but the truth is that he's not - neither are you.


Every relationship needs good communication- he's feeling scared and unsure, I'm sure you are too. You two should be able to talk about those feelings, and how you're going to deal with them. The first step is to talk to your parents. Then, get to the doctors, and enroll in some parenting classes.plan for the future, how will you go to school and be parents? Can you (or your family) support a baby? Right now I'm sure your future is looking scary and uncertain, planning will help clear it up for you.


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Registered: 08-02-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:38pm
I told my parents. Well I actually told my mom but she told my dad. My mom yelled alot and my dad yelled to but I was already up stairs when she told him when I went back down they were quiet. They told me their really disapointed and they thought I knew better to not turn out like my sister and then they asked me if I was sure I wanted to keep it. My dad said something about abortion but I told him I'd never do that. It's my baby. I'm getting really excited now that I'm not so scared about telling them =]

 

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Registered: 06-12-2005
In reply to: cakes420
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:52pm

Congrats on telling them and congrats on not TOO big of a reaction :o) I'm sure they'll adjust in no time and start becoming excited grandparents!! Have you sat down with them yet and started planning things out like school, insurance (I would get Medicaid right away if I were you), picking out an OBGYN, money, ect?


I wouldn't worry right now about you're BF. IMHO, I think it's good he's telling you how he feels. Maybe he can sit down with you and your parents and help figure things out.


I hope everything works out for you! GL and keep us updated (and call your DR!!! :o)

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Registered: 06-03-2008
In reply to: cakes420
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 6:28pm
I remember that feeling. It sucks. My mom has supported me 110% all the way through and made me leave school when I texted and told her to take a pregnancy test. She didn't believe me, but then right away she called up and got most of my appointments scheduled. Then we told my dad like a month later and I was even more scared for that (they are divorced and I live w/ my mom.) But he was totally supportive. I thought he was going to disown me. So maybe everything will be okay with you and your parents.