My boyfriend just left me and im pregnan

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Registered: 02-14-2010
My boyfriend just left me and im pregnan
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Sun, 02-14-2010 - 5:06pm
I was dating this Brazilian guy, and he got me pregnant. He was a really romantic guy, eh "played" around and didn't afraid of anything. Anyways, he got me prenant, I'm 5 weeks in and im really afraid I'll be alone when i have the kid, whatshould i do!?
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Sun, 02-14-2010 - 5:07pm
omg leik ttly no wat u mean bb tht sux
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Sun, 02-14-2010 - 5:11pm
yeah i know. I really miss him. he had the nicest laugh
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Sun, 02-14-2010 - 5:20pm



Edited 2/14/2010 5:22 pm ET by ginger2kx
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Mon, 02-15-2010 - 2:08pm
Hi my name is Melissa and im 16 and 24 weeks pregnant.
I myself am going to be a single mother because the baby's father does not want to be involved.
I was very afraid at first but im dealing with the fact that im going to be a single mom.
I just dont think about the negatives i think about the positives.
Does he know your pregnant?
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Registered: 02-17-2010
Wed, 02-17-2010 - 12:22pm
wow youll do just fine you can be a mom without a man i got married when i was 15 to this guy who was 22 and he didnt help me with the baby i have 2 babys now and pregnant and i got divorced i can do it it is really hard but you can make it
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Registered: 02-20-2010
Sun, 02-21-2010 - 2:58pm

I'm Jasmine I got Pregnant really young I was only 13 and my boyfriend was 15 and when I told him he just said What is he supossed to do and after 2 days he got a new girlfriend. Im Now 15 with a 2 year old baby girl it's not really hard being a single mom because I have my family there for me but there are hard times like when you baby gets its first ear affection and medical stuff but over all I like being a parent to my beautiful baby girl Jaslin.You have to think positive


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 12:50am
To tell you the truth, you may be better off with out the babies daddy... Being a single teen mom is nothing to be a shamed of... Im not a single teen mom, but actualy quite the oppisite I am an engaged 17 yrs old teen mom with a 1 1/2 yrs old baby girl.. When being together with a babies daddy will make things more difficult and I am only telling yo from expeirence. Yes they may be able to help out, but what happens when they began to stay out late like they use to and not help you with the baby as much as you like them to.. well this is what happened to me in a way I wish I was a single teen mom from the begining, but now that my daughter knows her daddy I don't want to take that from her.. even though he is never there for her or I... quit his job and is now struggling to get a new job and I have been doing it all by myself for a whole yr...sooo hunny think twice and make a good decision because it may effect you 18 yrs or the rest of your life... It's hard I know but keep your chin up mama