New. 19 w/ 6 month old baby

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Registered: 01-15-2010
New. 19 w/ 6 month old baby
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Fri, 01-15-2010 - 3:44pm

My name is Brittany and I have a con Named Nicholas. He is my life and I love him so much. I have a job and go to school so I'm away from him a lot. The daddy and I aren't together and we hate each other. He rarely helps me with anything, hes going to take Nic next weekend overnight for the first time. He never buys dipears or anything. I just dont know what to do to make him understand how hard it is to do it all alone. And sense I'm away from Nic a lot already I feel bad when i want to go to the movies with friends so I hardly ever go out. I live with my mom and my son and I share a room. I feel like Nic desreves so much more and like I cant give him what he needs. I like a guy right now but I feel like I'm not suppose to like him. I just want to be a family but it's so impossible with to get along with Nics dad. I'm just at the end of my rope and out of ideas, I need some advice.

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Registered: 01-22-2009
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 4:17pm

Hey! welcome to the board!


im karynne, 19 and my daughter abbygaile is 2, going on 3


First off, id like to say, i have a reaaaallly bad situation with the father also. He paid for milk and diapers when she was a baby but now that shes out of diapers and actually eats, he feels like theres nothing for

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-15-2010
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 5:55pm

thanks.


there are no custody arrangements hes not even on the birth certificate... he took our son for the weekend but it went horrible and i said he could never have him over night again...


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Registered: 07-14-2010
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 4:37pm
Hey britt, WHAT DOEST KiLL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER AND AS I CAN TELL YOU ARE A STRONG MOM U WORK AND ITS ALL ABOUT IF IT AINT WORKING OUT MOVE ON ITS ALL HIS LOSE AS MUCH AS I CAN TELL YOU im sure youll find somebody better but dont go out looking lol hell come to you :) show your baby how strong and happy you are now that you have him that can only make you happy and slowly forget about him and when he sees you happy he(your bf or ex) will want to have what you have but wont trust me everything happens 4 a reason you can do it and you already r !!!!!!! I'm flower, if you want to chat im here :):):):)