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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 6:44pm
hey everyone,
i've posted a few times before,
My name is Shea, (prncd Shay, just had to throw tht out there lol)
i'm 15 and i just had my daughter 5 weeks ago, it'll b six this friday.
the FOB and i we're dating for almost three years, i was really confused about keeping my baby or not, i was planning on giving her up for adoption untill i was about..28 weeks, i really wanted to keep her but my bf was really against it, and i loved him, with all my heart. but after a while i couldnt take it, i was crying all the time, i was so depressed thinking i was going to loose this part of me, then i realized i have to do something for me and i told him
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In reply to: xgorg3ousx
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 10:09am
I'm sorry you're going through this. Definitely take him to court, because he IS the father and he has the duty of supporting his child. Right now your little baby is more important than anything else. Make sure thats your priority and just keep being a great mom. Maybe your boyfriend will come around, maybe not. EIther way, you have to take care of you and your beautiful LO.
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In reply to: xgorg3ousx
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 2:44pm

hi I'm chey. I was fifteen when i was pregnant also.
I just wanted to tell you that I thought you were a very strong girl for considering adoption. I couldn't even consider it. And I think you are very brave for keeping your lo.

I'm sorry you have to put up with that but i would def take him to get the paternity test. He seems like he's very immature. Hopefully he'll come around and want to help out

Good luck

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In reply to: xgorg3ousx
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 5:15pm

Welcome to the board. I'm Haely (21) single momma to my daughter Taegan (20 mo). What I don't get is, if your "BF" new you were going to give the baby up, why would he talk to your belly and say "Daddy" loves you... making you feel closer to this baby. Maybe you should ask him that! It seems a little twisted to me.


I'm sorry you're having to go through this, but like everyone else has said, forget him! Only talk to him in court, and don't give him the pleasure of knowing how HIS daughter is, once he finds out for a fact that she really is his. He doesn't deserve knowing anything about this baby, except for knowing the expenses

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