New mom at 16 need help please

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brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
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 Sun, 01-17-2010 - 3:19am
Hey everyone I'm jessica and I just had my baby 4 days ago and I need so advice on what to do I have no support from my family or his father and Im really scared so if anyone has any advice on what to do it would be greatly appriceated thanks a lot jessica

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summarae
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Sun, 01-17-2010 - 3:00pm

Hi. Jessica,


My name is Mrs. C.

brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Sun, 01-17-2010 - 3:24pm
When I say I have no family help I mean no person in my family is talking to me and I have one very close friend that I trust around brandon but I can't get in touch with her I tell my counseler everything but I'm scared that I'm gonna do something wrong with him I love kids but I've never gone through this do you have any advice or techneques that you used or helped you in any way?
summarae
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Sun, 01-17-2010 - 4:52pm

Unfortunately, when we have babies they don't send us home with a user manual.

brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Sun, 01-17-2010 - 10:02pm
Ok thanks alot if I have any questions would you mind if I asked you
summarae
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Mon, 01-18-2010 - 6:45pm
Not at all!
brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Mon, 01-18-2010 - 9:31pm
Yea he has a doctor he wasn't in today but he has an appointment on Tuesday and I did ok yesturday I'm thinking he is colic because after he eats he spits up alot and he gets really gassy so it's like I can't get him calmed down enough to where I can get him to sleep
ereyes3
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Mon, 01-18-2010 - 9:37pm

Hey Jessica,


Im Evelyn, Im 15 years old and I just had my baby girl 3 months ago, Im sorry nobody in your family is supporting you, my moms family doesnt like my baby's dad but we are still together and we have been together for 3 years, Is your babys dad still in your and your baby's life. If you ever need anything you can ask. Well Congrats and Lots of luck.


brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Mon, 01-18-2010 - 10:36pm
Thanks and no his father is not in his life his father is a beep
ereyes3
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Tue, 01-19-2010 - 12:29am
That really sucks, well hopefully you can find someone that will love you and your son as if it was his own child.
brandonashton2010
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New mom at 16 need help please
 Tue, 01-19-2010 - 3:37pm
thanks alot guys y'all are awesome

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