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Registered: 10-26-2008
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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 8:20pm
hi my name is christie im 17 and im 5 months pregnant. i live with my grandma and she seems okay with it now, just sometimes when she gets mad at me she always throws it in my face. when i found out i was pregnant i ran away because she always told me if i was to ever get pregnant i cant stay with her, i went to placement for a month then she got in contact with me and she told me she wanted me to come home since she was the only one that has been there for me through out my life. this was not a planned pregnancy, i didnt want this i had so much going for me and everything but i've faced facts and now i understand i have to deal. abortion didnt cross my mind i dont believe it or adoption. me and the father was dating for a while and i really loved him. at first when we found out he was there for me but as time went on we just faded, he started telling me thing like you should of got abortion or you need to put it up for adoption im not ready blah blah blah and that really hurt me we arent together now, he told me he would still be there for the child but to tell the truth i dont even know. it so hard every single day waking up knowing he left and hes not here to help me, everything i do i do it by myself i go to doctors appointments alone everything and i just wish he was there to i tryed to give him chances for us but hes just not getting it, so i recently decided to just let him go and just worry about me and my child. i dont know why but if i could go back and change everything i honestly dont think i would. i never thought this would ever happen to me i was always known as the good girl, but im still going to school and everything. im confused about why would he do this to me and im scared.thanx for reading all this srry so long.


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Registered: 09-04-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 12:24am
Im shea,and i feel/felt the same way as you do, but im much younger. im 15, i have a 5
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Registered: 10-26-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 6:00pm
thanx :)
im glad you did what you wanted to do and follow your heart. omg i hate it how guys do stuff like that, but im really excited for you and i wish you the best of luck with you and you new born baby girl.


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Registered: 12-18-2007
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 9:57pm
hello i'm krystal (19) LO is Ian he's 2 1/2 months old. congratulations on your pregnancy and welcome to the board.

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Registered: 10-26-2008
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 11:39am
thanx.... so how is it rasing a new born? what should i expect?


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Registered: 12-18-2007
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 10:58pm
its the best thing ever. just wanna say get some sleep while you can. i really dont know how to say what u should expect. My baby was a great baby he hardly cried, slept great (STTN at 6 weeks). But if you have any questions ill be glad to answer them. congratulations.

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Registered: 09-04-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 2:41pm
i agree. try to sleep whenever your baby does, you might not want to, but at night you'll really really wish you did! lol, i thought i could stay up during the day, and at night i felt like a zombie!!

my daughter is starting to get on a schedual, bed around 7 and wakes up around 3, so hopefully within a few weeks she'll be sleeping through the night lol.

make sure you burp your baby well, when ever i feed Alysha she ends up using me as a pacifier and falling asleep, there was a few times i didnt burp her and she'd wake screaming with gas pains, oopps.

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Registered: 10-26-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 3:06pm
oh ok thanx i'll find out today what im having. i cant wait :) lol hopefully the father comes i told him but i dont know his older brother said he'll be there for me no matter what his brother decides to do. i hope its a boy i really want a boy lol


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Registered: 05-21-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 11:02pm
Hey did you find out what you are having?

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Registered: 10-26-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 8:25pm
yes!!! lol im having a boy. :)


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Registered: 05-21-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 9:25pm

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Boys are so sweet!


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