oh my gosh.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2008
oh my gosh.
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Mon, 11-10-2008 - 1:10am

HELP

I took a test
it was instantly positive.
Im pregnant
Im seeing my doctor tomorrow
but i know i am
i know my body
and i know im pregnant
i found out a few hours ago and it was okay while my best friend was around, but now..im losing my mind, im having a panic attack.
How do i raise a baby....the father said he will "break down" and that he couldnt do it..that we have nothing between the two of us..that it cant and shouldnt happen and said i should get an abortion
and i just dont know
im 18
im still in school
i work at mcdonalds
and i would be ALONE
ALONEALONE
im so scared
i cant stop shaking
help me
HELP ME

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-04-2008
In reply to: katiee_bugg
Mon, 11-10-2008 - 4:51am
hey! im re-doing my comment since it was 4:00 in the morning where i am and i wasnt paying attentiong to what i was saying,

you are not alone, there are so many girls in the same position,
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Registered: 05-08-2008
In reply to: katiee_bugg
Mon, 11-10-2008 - 4:56am
Just wanted to post to you to advise taking out references of abortion in your post Shea. While everyone here is quite supportive, we have a huge group of lurkers (and trolls) that enjoy coming to this board and stirring up drama. It is usually best not to give them any ammo to come after any of us with. :)
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Registered: 05-08-2008
In reply to: katiee_bugg
Mon, 11-10-2008 - 5:02am

Welcome to the board.

I am Andie (19), DF is Casey (23). We lost our daughter Annie to Potters Syndrome on August 18th 2007 and I am now pregnant with our son, Charlie due Feb. 25th 2009.

You will be a great mom ... eventually this initial shock will wear off and things will be better. There are a lot of options for you if you feel you can't handle being a mom yet, we even have a few girls already on the board somewhere (haven't seen them in a while actually but I'm sure they are lurking) who chose to give their babies up for adoption. If needed, I'm sure they can provide support and advice for you.

No matter what happens, we are a very supportive board and will be here for you. You are not alone :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2008
In reply to: katiee_bugg
Mon, 11-10-2008 - 11:32am
Congrats on your pregnancy :)

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Registered: 05-21-2008
In reply to: katiee_bugg
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 11:43am
Hi! Congrats on your pregnancy! Everything will be fine and you will be a great mom. I know it is scary but those feelings will go away before you know it and instead you are going to feel excited