pregnant, engaged, and scared.

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Registered: 12-01-2008
pregnant, engaged, and scared.
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Mon, 12-01-2008 - 6:51pm
My fiance and I are expecting and I am terrified. Were both 14 and are hopefully (Cross your fingers!) getting married soon. I really need advice from other moms on how they went through everything. I'm really early on in my pregnancy (4 weeks) and i'm already terrified to give birth. Vaginally or c-section. I'm having a pretty hard time taking all this in at once. And if you guys have any stories or advice I would greatly appreciate it (:
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Registered: 05-21-2008
Mon, 12-01-2008 - 7:56pm

Hi! Welcome! I'm Zenycha(17) mommy to Jayden(1) and SO/FOB is Berto(19). I got pregnant as soon as I turned 15 and my SO was 16

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Registered: 12-18-2007
Mon, 12-01-2008 - 9:17pm
hi welcome to the board, i'm krystal (19) have a 4 mnth baby boy Ian. congratulations on ur pregnancy and being engaged. Are u gonna have a long engagement or can u get married that young somewhere? just curious. And on being scared about labor, just dont stress to much you'll do fine. Definately get to the docs if u havent already, and make sure u take ur vitamins.
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Registered: 09-04-2008
Mon, 12-01-2008 - 10:29pm
hey im Shea(15), prncd Shay, my daughter is Alysha(alicia lol, yeah..we have weird spellings)
congrats and i know how scared you must be, its not as bad as people think. in the 'yakity yak' folder there should be a thread on labor stories, my labor went pretty good.
just for now dont stress out, just relax and take it easy.
CONGRATS on getting engaged..you must hhave
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Registered: 07-31-2008
Mon, 12-01-2008 - 11:35pm

Hi I'm Crystalyn(15) and I have a 1 month old named Seth and the father (still my boyfriend) is Carl(17) And it is REALLY scary at first and even scarier when you tell your mom and/or dad. Don't worry though (I know easier said then done) everyone who says labor is BAD either didn't have a pain med. (epidurals are heaven) or they just want to scare you. My labor was easy. Most teen labors are, not all but most. Congratulations on both engagment and prgncy, even though your scared it will all be worth it.


Sorry I just like to show him off...

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Registered: 05-21-2008
Mon, 12-01-2008 - 11:39pm

He is so precious!! ::Sorry for the threat-jack::


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Registered: 07-31-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 11:48am
Thank you =]
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Registered: 12-01-2008
Wed, 12-10-2008 - 10:17pm
Thank you so much. All of it's just kinda overwhelming. Your daughter is beautiful btw (: I'm really new to this message board and i'm still not quite figuring out how everything works. I'll attach pictures as soon as I figure out how!
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Registered: 12-01-2008
Wed, 12-10-2008 - 10:23pm

He is so cute! I've always had a huge fear of giving birth and the people who do know about the pregnancy have told me it's nothing to worry about, but that doesn't quite help! We haven't told my grandparents or his mom yet. so

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Registered: 09-04-2008
Wed, 12-10-2008 - 10:23pm
lol if your uploading them from photobucket you can just click the 'use you on HTML tags' button thinger on the bottom of the msg thing(when your writting back and look and the bottom of the msg it'll say tht) then just put in your html code from photobucket, if your uploading them from your computer just click the ;attach a file; button thing and it'll take you from there,

heres a like to the siggy request page where you can request to get a siggy made, :)
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-pssigshow/

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Wed, 12-10-2008 - 10:28pm
Thank you so much for talking to me. I really appreciate it. Your son is precious. We haven't told his mom or my grandparents yet. But we're praying that everything turns out okay. We haven't been to the doctor yet. But planning to go soon. Even before I found out I was pregnant he was talking about getting engaged. So hopoefully its not a quilt thing! I'll post pictures as soon as I can!
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