Good post .. well .. I think I gravitate to them each in different ways ... I gotta admit .. I'm totally biased and love the gender and placement of our children .. Koben .. my firstborn - always special b/c he's my first .. he's a morning bird .. so I enjoy our morning alone time .. and if I'm slipping out to a store at 6:30am - he gladly joins me (of course NOT a school morning) ... Selah .. she's my girl .. the ONLY girl and is totally my sidekick - we have fun .. b/c it's just "Us Girls" and then Brantzen .. he's my BABY .. so he still LOVES to be babied and acts like a baby! :-)
So, we just kinda have our different moments and times of the day .. bedtime .. is extra special with Selah .. b/c I sit in her big queen bed with her and it's just US and we chit chat - though the bad thing about that 'habit' .. she doesn't like to go to bed when I'm not here. ;-/
and for Brantzen .. since he's still home .. I get PLENTY of alone time with him . but gotta admit .. we make a smokin Wii time on Super Mario Bros! :-)
While the last year and a half I have had more focus on Grayson and DH has had RJ, I have made just 'RJ and I' time.
Interesting...I was just thinking about this the other day and evaluating my one-on-one relationship with each kid.
Blake is the oldest and we have a special bond