Does anyone else have
Not me personally, but I do know two stay at home dads.
I would definelty make it a consideration if you are the bread winner, and like you say Auntie is great but she is NOT mommmy or daddy. My dh will be a sahd starting in april. I live in canada and get 12mnths off then dh will take another 12 from his work so we are still getting the dual income and one of us is always here for him.
You have you do whats right for you. GL