accidental shame = PT i need help
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|Fri, 06-18-2010 - 3:06pm|
we accidentally shamed lara into wanting to use the toilet. my friend and i thought itd be so cute to take a picture of lara and her new baby brother both in just diapers...she lost it and demanded clothes and particularly shorts. then throught talking with her animals it was clear she was embarassed to be like a baby and a few days earlier she had seen her close friend pee in the grass outside.
so we put underwear and shorts on her and she chose which potty to use and she chose potty chair and we decorated it in stickers (cause she asked for a pink potty we had a brown one so...)
then for 3 hours she was either saying she had to pee and pulling her shorts and underwear down and sitting or i was saying i had to and we'd go. and no pee.
then finally she says i peed and we run and put her on it and a little more pee comes...the first time ever.
then since it was bedtime i decided to put pull ups on (dont use those usually either) and within 10 minutes she was like i peed and there was a ton in there (and i wasnt able to watch her in that time or encourage her to sit mroe cause baby was crying)
and now im not really sure what im supposed to do. most potty training sites seem to be aimed at much younger children and arent really relevant to her.
and i wasnt particularly ready either...is it ok to put pull ups when she sleeps ? and how much am i supposed to ask her do you have to pee--i dont wanna drive her crazy? and we have to take her to dentist tomorrow..am i supposed to put underwear or diaper??
im particularly curious about those who waited til the BB asked cause i think its prolly a little different when its asked by the kid then when the parent asks kid to do it....