Update - Getting a divorce

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Registered: 05-11-2004
Update - Getting a divorce
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 7:43am

Hello ladies,


It feels like its been a while since I've posted here. Things on the boards got confusing when there became so many other boards and then them being managed by different people...I just didn't have the time to keep up with them all and I became hopelessly addicted to Facebook, so the online mommy friends I have there is pretty much all I follow these days.


Because this board has been like an online 2nd home for so many years (6 yrs now since I discoverred this place...wow!) I thought I'd come to share my big news and latest update.


Adams and I are getting a divorce.


Many of you know we have had our struggles over the years. I did my best to hold the marriage and family together and just couldn't do it anymore.


This is a conversation I have been avoiding with a lot of people only because it is rather sad. I posted about it on facebook and got a huge response so thought I'd come over here and make one announcement for anyoe who was interested. I felt weird announcing it the way I did on facebook

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Tue, 06-15-2010 - 6:34pm
(((HUGS))) Rebecca!
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 2:23am

Rebecca it's sooooo good to see you back on the board! I'm sorry to hear about the divorce but I'm happy to hear that things are getting better! (((HUGS)))

Thanks for checking in! I hope we see you around more often!

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Registered: 08-17-2005
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 10:59am
Thanks for the update Rebecca! Sounds like things are looking up for you and the boys, I'm so happy to read that!:) I've thought about you and Mariam a few times in the past and wondered how you guys were doing. Good to see you, and good luck with the divorce arrangements, I hope that they go smoothly.


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Registered: 05-14-2004
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 10:44am

((((Rebecca))))

I am so sorry to hear this news! (((HUGS)))

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Registered: 08-26-2003
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 10:00am

Rebecca!!!!!!!!!!


I am so sorry! I don't keep up with FB so I didn't see your news there. I'm glad you came to the board to post about it. I know quite a bit of what you were going trough over the years with him and I command you for working so hard on keeping that marriage going with no help on his end. You've done your best, now no regrets and move forward! It is trully very sad since I know how much you cared for him and keeping the family together, but I'm glad that you're finding strenght to move forward and find happiness elsewhere. Life is short and we shouldn't waste it on people that don't deserve us. I'm glad to hear that the kids are adjusting well - working in opposite shifts no doubt helps.
I'm devastated for you for finding out that he married you under false pretenses, that had to hurt. But you seem to be moving on and I'm very happy for you.

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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 8:34am

(((REBECCA)))

I am so sorry you have had to go through so much. It sounds as though you have worked very hard to make things work. But it seems that you are ready to embark on a new chapter and I hope it brings you wonderful things!

I pray that you have the best of things to come!