Quick vent, feel free to ignore....
Find a Conversation
|Wed, 10-28-2009 - 7:58pm|
My husband isn't answering his phone so I am gonna vent to you guys, lol. It is my first day off for a few days and I am already ready to strangle the crazy woman. I am so flipping SICK of her nasty a$$ remarks. If she couldn't speak, that would be so nice, lol.
Some examples of irritating crap. Girls had half a day of school today for parent teacher meetings. So, they came home and had lunch. B has a friend over b/c they are working on a project. Her friend brought over candy and gave one to B but not to T. So, I told T she could have a piece of halloween candy. MIL sees her getting the candy and starts FLIPPING out "you are constantly shoving your mouth with junk food. I NEVER see you eat anything worth while but yet every single time I turn around you are putting crap in your mouth. What is wrong with you?" I glare at her to which she says "well, FINE, if you want her to eat it, I don't care. I know you let them eat whatever they want anyway" and she storms upstairs (where she is now, thank goodness).
Now, that followed a long line of garbage from her today. She also felt the need to "tell" on B for saying "don't be a numbnut" to her friend that is over here. So MIL calls me in the room and proceeds to tell me how horrible she is and "I can't beleive you allow her to talk like that. I have NEVER heard a child be so mean and rude to another child before. That girl just has NO respect for anyone and she shouldn't even have any friends wiht the way she acts". Mind you, I was not here when it was said so I did not *allow* her to say anything. And, while what she siad isn't "ok".....I hear far worse coming from all these other kids mouthes ALL the time. But, MIL tells me about it. So, of course I call B to the room to talk about it. MIL rolls her eyes and says "dont' call her out here. You aren't going to do anything about it anyway, you let those kids say and do whatever they want".
I deal with that situation, B goes back to the other room and MIL starts again "Don't you change what you are doing just b/c *I* am here. If you let them say it when I am not here, let them say it when I am here. I said I don't let them talk like that and she says "well, that's like the other day. Taeya said something about a penis and you just let her talk like that. Even the girls both said they can say what they want and you dont' do anything. So she said she was going to eat a penis and you didn't do anythign about it" Me "I have NEVER heard her say she was going to eat a penis" and I call T out to figure out what is going on. But REALLY.....I would let my 9 year old say she is going to eat a penis and NOT say anything to her. Call T out, and she tells me what she said, it was something stupid where they say something else but intend for it to sound like something bad. I asked T if I have EVER allowed her to say ANYTHING like that, she said no. So I said "why would you tell Nana that I do" SHe looked confused and said "I have NEVER told her you allow me to say that". MIL says "oh, it was Brianna that said you let them say whatever". I asked Brianna and she said "I never said that, she was on the phone with papap and was telling HIM that, but I never said it." So, basically she is calling everyone and telling them that i let my kids talk about eating penis'. And she honestly BELIEVES that to be true. Nut case.
The bad part is....B's friend called her mom and asked her to pick her up and said "your grandma is mean. All she keeps doing is yelling" so she went home. Nice....freaking fruit loop. Maybe she needs to eat a penis.