Everything is going ok. I have my ultrasound in one week and found out today it's a "targeted" ultrasounds which kind of P'd me off. Since DH's brother has downs, they are doing it -- and offering genetic counseling. Well, the thing is like 95% off downs is NOT genetic. A very small percentage falls into the catagory that CAN be inherited. I dont' remember all the terms, but Josh has a form that CAN be inherited, but neither of my IL's are carriers. This form can be inherited, but can also be a fluke like the other 95%. It just annoys me that they didn't ask, and assumed that we need to have this targeted. We are at "risk" just as much as anyone else who doesn't have a family member with downs. After talking to MIL about the "counseling" in Atlanta, she was highly unimpressed with what info they gave us (and it's the same company here in Wisc). She's very active in rights and services for the disabled in NY so is very educated on the subject.
Anyway, everything fine. Thanks for asking :)