11 days late and still BFN??!!

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Registered: 01-19-2004
11 days late and still BFN??!!
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 4:19pm
Hey ladies, happy 4th! It has been forever since I posted here. I am currently 11days late for my period and got a bfn on Answer hpt. I am always on a regular 28(-29) day cycle(have been ttc for 5yrs, 3 IUIs, 2 IVF cycles(the most recent in May with BFN May 26th(my anniversary) and cycle start May 27th). I did not chart last month as we were told no possibility of pg without donor sperm. My DH and I had been very upset by this and are not sure whether we will go that route. DH left on June 27th for Laos and I did not tell him I was late(no hopes up, figured delay after IVF cycle). Am I in unchared areas for you all?? If not pregnant, then what?? I am fairly certain I did O last month(felt O pain on left side around right time- as I do avery month). What is wrong with me if I am not preg?? Can't contact Dr till tomorrow(military had 4day weekend), can't contact DH at all... confused, tired, and worn out from all the BFPs for people who don't even want them. Be thankful that you can conceive consider adoption to couples who cannot. I really don't know what to think and what could be going on if I am not pg. I do not really have anyone here who will talk about this without saying, oh you are pregnant, definately(just because their hopes for me are high). Need an unbiased perspective on things... Sorry about the venting, just has been a long hard road that came to an early and unexpected end and I don't even have my DH here to talk with... Thanks for any help and advice and letting me vent, will be contacting DR tomorrow and hopefully hear back from him asap... Will keep you posted on any news...