15 ?pregnant? Advice NEEDED
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15 ?pregnant? Advice NEEDED
| Sun, 08-19-2007 - 1:50am |
Okay, can someone please help me on this one. I need some advice. Okay, My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I was a virgin at the time BUT we did it. So like I was saying, we did it and everything was fine, the next month my period came and I was happy to atleast see that IT arrived. So it was a normal month but it became the next month and the family had some problems and I was under ALOT of stress and my period DID NOT arrive. My first thought was "can I be pregnant?" I was trying to find really good reasons why I can't be. I have this medical book and I did research and nothin seemed to help me enough to grasp what I am goin through. Next thing I thought was "Oh stress!!" So I went on with the month awaiting it. My period never came. So now its another month and still no sign of my period. I don't think that I am still stressed. I hope that it is just stress. But here is more detail to the situation so someone can give me advice. When he and I were havin sex he had a condom on and he did not ejeculate, because we had to leave/ we didnt finish. He asked to finish but I was too scared to even go near him. I bled a little but i think that is just because i was a virgin. I can't ask my parents for money for a pregnancy test from the drug store because they want to know want receips ans to see exactly what i bought. I think that's out. SO SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT.

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Oh Sweetie... I know you're scared.
Have you thought about whether or not your keeping it if you are pregnant? They only do abortions up until 13 weeks.
Hi hun,
I hope by now you have found a way to test, but I just wanted you to know that almost the exact same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity. We were responsible, like you, and used a condom, but I was so stressed out with worries of getting pregnant that I didn't get my period for several months after (even though it turned out I wasn't pregnant). It also doesn't help that at your age your body is still undergoing hormonal fluctuations that may cause your period to be irregular. Please update us as to what has happened since you posted - we care! :-)
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Hiya Hunni.
With what you have said it doesn't sound like you are pregnant as i am always missing periods from doing lots of sports and maybe even getting stressed. When i was 17 i went to a family planning centre and they do a test for free. Go with a friend as it can be really scary on your own.
Good Luck and Take care.
Mika xxxx
Mommy to Mason, Morgan, Eddie, Lilly-Anne, Elli
Marlena
Do you have some good friend that can keep secrets for you. Do you know someone that can drive you to the clinic to get a preg. test. Don't buy those store bought preg. test because some are not as acurate as others are. Go get a blood test done it you can get a ride.
When I found out I was pregnant I was 16 and I was scared also. I went to get a blood test done so that I would know for sure and my sister in law took me. She was someone I knew I could trust and she took me to the free clinic and they ran a blood test and sure enough I was pregnant.
If you ask for a blood test they will know for sure if you are pregnant because the blood test shows exactly if the prengnancy hormone is there. And it can also tell how many months or weeks you should be at.
I really hope everything works out for you. Keep your head up. And be safe next time if your not pregnant. Always use a condom. And if it break make him get up and put another one on. Make sure he use one because some boys slip then off during sex and you never know.
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