15 ?pregnant? Advice NEEDED

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Registered: 08-19-2007
15 ?pregnant? Advice NEEDED
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Sun, 08-19-2007 - 1:50am
Okay, can someone please help me on this one. I need some advice. Okay, My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I was a virgin at the time BUT we did it. So like I was saying, we did it and everything was fine, the next month my period came and I was happy to atleast see that IT arrived. So it was a normal month but it became the next month and the family had some problems and I was under ALOT of stress and my period DID NOT arrive. My first thought was "can I be pregnant?" I was trying to find really good reasons why I can't be. I have this medical book and I did research and nothin seemed to help me enough to grasp what I am goin through. Next thing I thought was "Oh stress!!" So I went on with the month awaiting it. My period never came. So now its another month and still no sign of my period. I don't think that I am still stressed. I hope that it is just stress. But here is more detail to the situation so someone can give me advice. When he and I were havin sex he had a condom on and he did not ejeculate, because we had to leave/ we didnt finish. He asked to finish but I was too scared to even go near him. I bled a little but i think that is just because i was a virgin. I can't ask my parents for money for a pregnancy test from the drug store because they want to know want receips ans to see exactly what i bought. I think that's out. SO SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT.

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Registered: 08-30-2007
Sun, 09-02-2007 - 5:35pm
i got pregnant when i was 17. i had no friends..my friends who still wanted to be my friend, well, their parents wouldn't allow it. my boyfriend who pretended to love me just wanted to have sex with me w/o condoms and used love as an excuse. people treated me like i was trash b/c i was pregnant at such a young age. i felt so depressed that i often thought about suicide. my mom never said it, but i know she and the rest of my family were embarased and ashamed. my ex boyfriend (we broke up about a month after i found out i was pregnant because he was cheating on me) told all his friends and family that i was a slut and he didn't even think the baby was his. i just wanted it to be a dream that i could wake up from. but it wasn't. so now i'm 22 w/ a 4 1/2 year old daughter that i love so dearly, but i truely honestly wish i would have waited. i'm married now, and have money, but when my daughter was a baby i still had to finish high school and work and i never had time or money to do anything. all my money went on diapers, clothes, milk, gas, baby sitter...and i didn't even have enough money for that..i still had to get money from my family and live with my grandparents. and even if you think you're grown and have a kid of your own, you still get treated like a child, especially if you still live with your parents or grandparents. i would say to you, if you really want a baby, babysit for someone with a baby so you can feed your need at least until you are out of high school and college or married to a husband who publicly loves you and has a job

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