16 and . . .late?!

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Registered: 10-21-2006
16 and . . .late?!
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Sat, 10-21-2006 - 9:56am
Hey i have a concern? well im 16 and i fell for this amazing guy we wne tout for 4 & 1/2 months and then he decided to be a jerk and i ended things. Well we had unprtected sex a lot but we did use condoms sometimes. Im on Loestrin so i thought it would ( However i did miss 4 days of the pill nd had unprotecd)but i thought id be ok but im a week and a day late nd it still hasnt come. I used to get it a few days early but that didnt happen so ithought tha tiwould come one time ties month. Its mia. now im 16 so im naieve and do stupid things so i has unprotected again even thoguh i was late now i thought it would be fun to have a kid but now reality hit and im a lil not sure about the future. i get nausous in the mornings sometimes only though im really moody, get headaches from nowhere , smells that i love bother me now.i also have extremely large abouts of discharge. im late of course and i did have cramps a few weeks before all this had happend but they stopped and i had light bleeding about a week nd a half ago. the blood was so light but like i said i ave a lot of discharge so idk what do to.
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Registered: 08-02-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 10:53am

Hi alil2young...


I'm really sorry for your situation. My best advice to you now would be to take a home pregnancy test. That's the quickest way to find out for sure. Once you know one way or the other, you can begin to make the necessary decisions. I really hope things turn out the way you want them to and I'm also hoping you have a very supportive and loving family to turn to. That's the best thing is a situation such as yours. Also, a bit of maybe unsolicited advice... in the future, try try try to take the pills on time, every day. They really work when you take them correctly.... and they help alleviate any of this unnessary stress. Good luck, hun! (((hugs)))


Please let us know how you're doing...and feel free to come back with any other questions or concerns.....


~Robin


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Registered: 09-26-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 12:25pm

Hi Sweetie!

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Registered: 10-21-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 3:43pm
thanks it really means alot to me that other people know what im going through because they have or are currnetly going through it. mi mom had given me a look and told me"well it could be a lot of money but whatever is best" i didnt say anytiong because if i am pg, then i cant just get rid of mi own flesh and blood. Thats a part of me and a part of the guy i had serious feelings for.
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Registered: 10-21-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 3:46pm
thanks, i thought since it was just those brown pills that it didnt mean anything. so i didnt take them. I have to go and get a test as soon as i can ill come back to tell you the ending result. im really glad i made the decision to sign on here nd ask for advice =)
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Registered: 01-17-2006
Sat, 10-21-2006 - 3:58pm

Hey we have a teen board on ivillage. If you want to you could stop over and introduce you self. Im sure everyone would welcome you.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/listsf.asp?webtag=iv-ppteenparent&nav=start

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Mon, 10-23-2006 - 9:20pm
hi there.
how did it go?
did you take a test?
i noticed you said that you thought it was ok "since it was only the brown pills"? every pill has different colors and i don't know which one you're on, but if you mean the last week, the week that you are supposed to get your period, then it wouldn't matter if you didn't take all of them. they are just sugar pills and they are included so that you don't get out of the habit of taking them and forget to start again on the day you start your next pack.
if it was just those ones, then you may be ok, but if you're feeling weird, i would still test.
let us know how that goes.
-jenny-



jenny

Mommy to Everett, the sweetest boy in the world
born 8.5.08