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16 and may be pregnant
| Sun, 06-10-2007 - 11:33am |
I am 16 years old. I haven't gotten my period in 2 months and i'm beginning to freak out since my boyfriend and I had sex numerous times. I have an irregular period and sometimes skip a month but never 2 so i'm worried. The first 2 times we had sex,my boyfriend and I used condoms but it was after he had placed his penis inside of me for about 2 minutes. And the third time he did the same thing except we didn't continue. He assured me he didn't come in me and i'm pretty sure he didn't,especially as it was only about 2 minutes. Now however I don't know. Also,I've been squeezing my nipples and this off-white,sometimes clear liquid has been coming out.I went on a website about milk production and if I am pregnant,the milk is not produced till 5 or 6 months of pregnancy,so what is it that's coming out?
My boyfriend has been with me all the way,he is very supportive and understanding.He told me that he went on a website and found out that it's very unlikely for someone to get pregnant from pre-cum.I'm planning to take a pregnancy test after exams.If I am though,how am I going to tell my parents??? They will be so angry.Pleeeeeeease anyone help! I don't know what's going on with my body!
My boyfriend has been with me all the way,he is very supportive and understanding.He told me that he went on a website and found out that it's very unlikely for someone to get pregnant from pre-cum.I'm planning to take a pregnancy test after exams.If I am though,how am I going to tell my parents??? They will be so angry.Pleeeeeeease anyone help! I don't know what's going on with my body!

I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant and it was kind of the same way with my period. I knew that something was different with my body, but I thought it was just stress. It was very difficult making the decision to tell my parents, and even harder to decide to keep and raise my daughter. My daughter's dad and I had broken up 2 months prior, so I was really on my own. I will tell you that it takes a lot of self-identification and finding out who YOU are before deciding to raise another human being. I thought that I would never be anything after I had her and that my life would be ruined--but I decided that it was something that I HAD to do.
Eight years later... I have graduated from college and am a teacher. I am currently working on my master's degree and having a wonderful husband who is in the ARMY... Life FINDS a way to work out, no matter what you think right now. I will be praying for you...
God Bless!!
Heather
Hello,
Have you tested yet? You should contact your doctor ASAP! IF you are pregnant, you need to start seeing a doctor, also you need to decide very quickly if you are going to keep the baby or not. Doctors can only perform abortions up until a certain amount of time.
You could also be late because of hormones. Since you are having clear fluid coming out of your nipples, you need to let your doctor know about that. It doesnt have anything to do with pregnancy since it is too soon for that. Its not uncommon for girls your age to have wacky cycles.
If you are not pregnant, See
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Take a test hun.
Good luck!
As for the leaking from your nipples, honey i had the same thing. It was from a natural hormone that get released after you become "active" DO NOT keep trying to get it to come out!! It will make you sore and makes more of those hormones.
Take a test. No sense worrying until you know. Also your parents just might surprise you. I was terrified to tell my parents. I thought they would be mad and worse disappointed in me. My parents were awesome about it. My dad(who I thought would be the worst)said "k". He absolutely LOVES his granddaughter and would do anything for me or her.
The hardest decision I made was to keep her or not. Go with your heart. Only you can decide what is right. If your parents wont stand beside you there are many agencies out there that will.
Do some research and see a good DR. they can make all the difference in the world. They can also give you great info as to where to go for anything from car seats to housing. JUST ASK!!
Good luck sweetie!! Keep us informed!!