9 days late..............

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Registered: 08-05-2003
9 days late..............
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 2:44pm
Ok ladies, this is getting so frustrating. waiting, waiting, and waiting either for a +HPT or AF. I'm 9 days late for my AF and all tests are ----. It's so confusing. If I'm not pg, then I wish AF would hurry and come so we can start trying again. But no AF keeps teasing me. i did go to the dr Thurs and she did an exam, she didn't tell me I was or wasn't pregnant. I have heard that in early pregnany they can't always tells by touch. I don't know what to do, have never been even a day late. I just want to get whatever going, either pregnancy or AF. It wouldn't have been so bad if I would have started when I was suppose to, but now it's 9 days and no signs of AF but -HPT so I guess now signs of pg either. Sorry to vent, just frustrated becasue nothing is happening, the longer it takes to start AF the longer it will take to get pg. I hoping that maybe I could still be pg, but probably doubtful
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 2:59pm
I'm sorry..I really dont know what to tell you..Its hard waiting and not knowing..Are you temping and charting at all?

Cara

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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 3:16pm
I've never done any charting or temping before. I'm wanting to try it this next time if I'm not pg now. I did log on to FF and start a chart yesterday and temping. I'm not really sure when to start this, but I started charting in case I start my AF. I guess right now I'm just waiting for AF or something.
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 4:46pm
We're in the same boat! I'm nine days late and I've only been late once before in six years. All my tests (3 of them) have been negative including one this morning! It's frustrating to not know one way or the other...it could be a long week waiting to test again. When are you planning to? Good luck!!!
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 5:28pm
Well I tested Thursday, so I'll probably wait till Monday or Tueday, I don't think I can wait a week. Who knows maybe I'll test in the morning. What about you
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Sun, 08-31-2003 - 2:30am
Lol. I tested when I was four and five days late and again this morning (ten days late)...I should wait until I'm 2 weeks late but I'm too impatient! Have you had any symptoms or anything? I spent one whole day throwing up a couple weeks ago and just assumed it was the 24-hour flu...still might be, who knows. I'll probably test Monday if I can wait that long--let me know how yours turns out! :-) Good luck!

~Sarah
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Sun, 08-31-2003 - 10:28am
Hi there. I'm so sorry you're still in limbo. I know exactly what you are feeling. When I was 7 days late this month and not showing any hpt positives, I said the same thing. "I just want to know either way." I would call your doc and insist on a pg blood test. If they wont do it, go to planned parenthood. The stress of being 9 days late with no answers is almost unbearable, I know. Actually, as you read in my other post, I'm still not convince I got AF. It's so aggravating not knowing. I think what frustrates me more than anything is everything is fine until you start trying, then boom, your cycles are all messed up, AF is different, etc. It's the constant wonder that's the worst. Like you said, if you're not pregnant, then you can start looking forward to next month but without AF that's kinda hard to do.

I wish you the best. Keep me updated I would really like to know how this turns out. I would definately call the doctor on Tuesday though. Talk to her nurse, explain the situation and insist on some answers. Tell her you're going crazy and with every passing day you get a little more stressed. Tell her the blood test will at least put your mind at ease enough to maybe have AF ring your bell.

Good luck,

Susan