am i pregnant?

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Registered: 06-13-2007
am i pregnant?
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Wed, 06-13-2007 - 3:08pm
i had sex april 27th, bleed on the 29th for 2 days. didnt have a period in may and didnt have one in the beginning of june. on june 12 i was spotting and through the day the bleeding got heavier. today it is not as heavy as my usual periods. whats going on? im only 14 and scared
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 9:02am

Hello,


I did!!! I use to get my period twice a month when I was 14 and 15. Then I use to get it really heavy for almost 7 days!!!!!!


~Lisa

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 06-13-2007
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 3:12pm
yea i guess thats a good thing but i really wanted to be pregnant
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Registered: 02-19-2007
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 4:04pm
You really should not be thinking about having a baby right now cause it is hard work to raise a baby. You will have to get up every 3 to 4 hours to feed the baby and change the diaper and give the baby a bath. Just worry about finishing school and find mr. right.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 7:44am

Hello,


Having a baby is very hard work and cost alot of money. You havent even graduated H.S so you would never find decent work....nevermind health ins. Forget having friends...All your Friends that you have now

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 01-22-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 1:30pm
Crissy, I am glad the test came up NEG! I know that you think you want to have a baby and that it would be so great. Someone to love and dress up in cute outfits. Someone that will be there for you no matter what! Like a real live doll. But the truth is that a baby is a full time job that you can never quit! Let me tell you some truth here...Having a baby is painful. Even before delivering your body would go through many things. And most of them are NOT pretty. Your breast will hurt and leak milk, your back will hurt, not only will you belly swell up but so can your face, hands, feet and ankles. The nerve that runs down your legs can and probibly will cramp up to the point tears will come. Your teeth might also get bad. The baby takes all from you. Those are only some of the things that can and will happen. Then child birth...NOT FUN! Yes they can give you drugs to ease the pain. But sometimes they either don't work or the Dr has to turn off the drip and you end up feeling everything. After is not pretty either...yes you would have a baby, that is when the HARD part starts and lasts until the day you die.
PLease do me a favor...Find someone that is an adult that you can talk to. 14 is a confusing time in all girls lives. The fact that you already had sex at your age scares me. I know it happens but just because you have already had sex does not mean you need to keep doing it.Respect yourself and make educated choices. The best of luck to you!
XOXO
Heather
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Registered: 02-19-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 1:46pm
Crissy, let me tell bad it hurts giving birth to a baby. With my first daughter before I had her by c-section, I was in labor for 42 and half hours in tears. My labor was all in the lower back, It was not fun. I was yelling at my doctor to give a c-section the whole time and he said lets see how far the head will come down first, and if you don't progrees after an hour and half we go for the c-section. C-section are not fun either, they have cut you big time to get the baby and you are in pain for days or weeks. I hope this helps you out and decide not to have a baby until you are way older.
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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:10pm
i know how painful it is because my friend got pregnant at 14 had the baby at 15 and i was in the delivery room with her so i know about the pain but in the end u have that little baby that will always love u. dont worry i dont think im gonna be having sex until im a little older but if i do i will use protection. idk it just i feel so alone like my sister has a fiance and all my friends have bfs but i dont and its hard to see them together all the time knowing i dont have that special person like they do. nobody knows wut i go through on a day to day basis. its hard like really hard sumtimes i just want to leave and not have to put up with all the drama thats at my house. yea having a baby is painful and all that but idk y i want one right now. im still hoping im pregnant but i think im just making myself think i am idk. i took a blood test on friday and i have to go back to the doctor in 2 wks and i guess they will be able to tell me if i am or not.
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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:13pm
i know how painful it is cause i was in the delivery room when my friend had her baby and another one of my friend had a c-section. so i know how painful it can be but sometimes i jsut feel alone and i need someone there and if i have a baby i know the baby will be there and love me.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 6:25pm

Hello,


I think you just to talked ME out of it.... YIKES

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 6:26pm

Hello,


How are you going to pay for a baby?


~Lisa


TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <