am i pregnant?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
am i pregnant?
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Fri, 12-08-2006 - 4:34pm

I need advice i am only 16 and 3 weeks ago me and my boyfriend of 7 months had sex. We did use a condom but my period is late and i am needing the toilet more than normal. My boyfriend fingered me the other week and he said he could feel something inside me! Could this be the baby growing or am i being stupid? I am worried as i cannot tell my parents they are catholic and my mum has made it clear she believes in sex after marrage i cannot make her disapointed in me again!

Please let me know your thoughts and advice!!

xx

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
Fri, 12-08-2006 - 4:42pm

sorry to hear u are scared, but ur boyfriend did not feel anything inside of u, that is impossible. people can have sex when they're pregnant and the guy won't even be able to touch the baby inside the mother. anyway, if ur concerned, take an at home pregnancy test or go to a local crisis pregnancy center (they do tests confidentially and for free).

i got pregnant the first time at 18 and i thought my parents would kill me. however, i was carrying their grandchild, and while at first they were upset, its more than likely your parents love you and want you to do what is best for yourself and your baby.

so good luck!! i hope things all work out for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-08-2006
Sun, 12-10-2006 - 3:23am
He definitly did not feel the baby, even if it was possible, at 3 weeks or so the baby is so so so small.