BFN-I'm sad

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BFN-I'm sad
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Thu, 09-18-2003 - 11:18am
I'm hoping it was too early,but i knew this would happen..AF is due on Sunday..Do you think it was too early too test? I used a FRE test..I'm gonna wait till Saturday to test now for sure..I have one left..I'm very disappointed..I'm 12dpo and i was sure i would have gooten a BFP by now,but i am probbaly not even pregnant..I should just face the facts already..Oh well....

Cara

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Thu, 09-18-2003 - 11:35am
Cara, I'm so sorry, I thought it was apossibility, maybe on Sat you'll get it. Good Luck, how are your temps?

Jen

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Thu, 09-18-2003 - 11:42am
Hey Cara that really sucks!!! I think it might have been early being that you are only 12 DPO!!! So we will just hope for better luck on Saturday...still keeping my fingers crossed for both of us!!!! I am going to the doctor today at 1:00 for my blood test that I have to do every month (atleast once a month sometimes 2) b/c of me being on Clomid...so I am just hoping for only good news...(which deep down I think once again I'm going to be shot down) =( my temps are kinda not changing very much so I guess that is good but I know yesterday evening like around 5:00 my temp was like 99.6 I was like wow does that mean anything it your temps stay higher during the day??? Well post your chart and let me check it out okay!!!! Good luck and ONLY hoping for ++++ for both of us!!!

Kayla

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Thu, 09-18-2003 - 12:05pm
Thanks....My temp did go down a bit today,but i was pretty much up all night aticipating taking the test..So i dont know if that had anything to do with it..Was a restless night.. I'm very bummed out today..Now i have to go to the docs for a biopsy..Not a good day at all..

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Cara

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Registered: 08-21-2003
Thu, 09-18-2003 - 12:34pm
Hi Cara,

I just wanted to let you know that I was a late tester with both of my kids. I had to wait until AF was almost a full week late to get a positive. With my 2nd child I tested almost a week after AF was due and the test was barely positive (I had even thrown the test away because I thought it was negative) I would wait until AF is at least a day late and test again....good luck and take care :)

Kristen
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Registered: 06-25-2003
Fri, 09-19-2003 - 8:17pm
Hi Cara,

I tested today also and also had a negative. I am staying positive though as I still feel really crappy. I am sweating all the time and today I had a liquid discharge, not sure what that means. And my stomach is in knots and my mind is on another planet, I am forgetting everything, very frustrating.

So I think I am now going to wait it out till Wed., that way I know for sure AF has been missed and also allow all the hormones to figure themselves out !!

Best of Luck.

Tracy
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Fri, 09-19-2003 - 8:42pm
Strange,i also had a liquid discharge today as well..When i went to the bathroom,my panties were wet..Not slimy either,just wet..I thought it was very odd.. Anyways,i'm not gonna test till AF is late..I'm also still buring up during the day..Wish i would know what was going on..Goodluck to us both..Hang in there..

Cara

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Registered: 07-23-2003
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 1:37am
I had a bfn today, too. I took the test in the afternoon, because I had fallen asleep putting my kids down for a nap. Though not an unusual occurrence, it was the longest I had gone w/o having to go to the bathroom. (I got up in the middle of the night to go twice!) Last night I had some cramps that felt very much like the stretching I had during my last pregnancy and even some that felt like Braxton-Hicks! Today my back had been hurting all day.

Well about an hour after, af seemed to come. But now, the bleeding, which barely made an appearance on the pad, seems to have stopped. Who knows; I'll wait a couple more days if af doesn't make a full-blown entrance. But I really think my hopes are dashed.

Better luck to you.

Kate

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Registered: 09-20-2003
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 2:39am
Don't lose hope, only good thoughts! Things will always work out!!