BIG PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 11-17-2006
BIG PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Fri, 11-17-2006 - 4:24pm
Im 32 weeks pregnant my due date is JAN 20, Im not 100 percent sure if this is my fiances baby? We split up for a while and during that time I was with my ex, once that was April 7-8, my fiance and I got back together mid april I found out i was pregnant in June. I had a period after the incident on the 7th, but i feel like it was a short one. Im having doubts only bacause sometimes doctors are wrong, and its only a 2 week difference? what do you think that chances are, please feel free to comment on what ever you may think.....Im desperate

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Registered: 04-22-2005
Fri, 11-17-2006 - 5:02pm

Before getting together with your ex, what was the first day of your previous period? For example, if your period started on April 1st, then it's unlikely that you were ovulating by April 7th or 8th, but mid-April (when you got back with your fiance) would be just right for conception.





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Registered: 11-17-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 9:46am
Yes it started around the 15-16..I just felt like it lastd much shorter, or im just thinking to much
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Registered: 02-09-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 11:50am

I wouldn't attempt to worry yourself into the stress about this too much.

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Registered: 11-17-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 1:07pm
No I have not told him, I dont think I can! But it has been stressing me out! After the first incident on the 7th with my ex I got my period around the 15-16 around there, I just felt like it was a short period and not as strong, but i never really gave it much thought! My ex and I did not use any protection, but he did not...well you knoww what! lol
As with my Fiance he did do that! Maybe Im worrying to much but I have been with my fiance for a few years and it seems like out of all that time, the one time I was with someone else I got pregnant. It just worries me. But My fiance and I were much more carefull b-4. Im I stressing out to much? I know I am.
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Registered: 02-09-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 1:14pm

Well,


I would be stressing out if I was in that situation too, because that is just darn crazy.

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Registered: 11-17-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 2:19pm

Actually my ex knows, he actually thought of this after finding out i was pregnant! He called me up and thought "oh no could it be" I keep thinking it over and over in my head, 9 out of 10 things say its not his and that it is my fiances but there is always that one percent chance that scares the crap out of me!

Icant remember when my last period was prior to being with my ex, but i know i got something after I was with him! Well the docs keep saying that Jan 20 is my due date and it has not changed yet, so thats a good thing, if I got pregnant on the 7th then the due date would be much earlier in jan right? YIKES! why why why???? I have not had any morning sickness throughout my pregnancy and this maked me want to GAG!

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Registered: 11-17-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 2:22pm
I cant really remember when I had my last period prior to being with my ex...I know it was some time in March.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 3:33pm

Hello,


I have to dissagree with the other posters here on this one.


The only thing I can think of as a solution is to

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Registered: 06-09-2006
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 7:26pm

the only way to be 100% is to get a paternity test after the baby is born.

  

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 12:02pm

Yeah, I have thought about this more, and I think that I would also tell my fiance.

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