can someon help me

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Registered: 07-14-2006
can someon help me
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Fri, 07-14-2006 - 3:51pm

i realy need someon advice wail my boyfriend was away i had sex with a friend of mine but i use protection and it was in may and two weeks later i got my period and that was on june 7
i have not told my boyfriend about it but know me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he came in me we did that but know i am late with my period and i have been having some pregnancy symptomes like breast tenderness and cramps i did not take a pregnancy test yet but if i am pregnant is there a chance my friend could be the father

and i would also like to knowe could you be pregnant and still get your period

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 4:36pm
If you got your period, then it is really doubtful that your friend is the father. If you are pregnant, when you go in for an ultrasound, they will be able to better tell how far along your baby is so that might help ease your mind.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2004
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 4:48pm
Yes your friend can most likely be the father. Sperm lives for up to 5 days. So you can't pin point on what day you got pregnant. You can even get pregnant a day after ovulation. So it would be hard to determine who the father was unless you didn't have sex with your boyfriend up to 5 days before you ovulated and up to a day afterwards.
You sound a little young. I hope you are not pregnant if you don't want to be. Next time you had better use some protection. The younger you are the easier it is to get pregnant. Yes you can have a period and still be pregnant although it isn't common. So take a pregnancy around the time of your expected period whether you get it or not or go see a doctor.
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Registered: 08-27-2004
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 5:39pm

If you are late get a pg test done asap whether it is a home test or a clinic. Chances are your friend is not the father given the fact that you had your period after that encounter. BUT, it is not impossible because yes, some still get their periods. If you are not pg and don't want to be, while you are getting your pg test from wherever, PLEASE pick up some birth control! Avoid an unwanted pg as well as STD's if you are going to have sex with others. Good luck

Monica ivf#1


Monica

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