Could I be pregnant?

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Registered: 01-11-2006
Could I be pregnant?
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Tue, 11-07-2006 - 1:40am

I's kinda early, so I'm wondering how to tell early on.

 
   
   Stephanie

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Tue, 11-07-2006 - 3:01am
Hi Stephanie! I'm only 6 weeks pregnant and have experienced the same sign and symptoms. It's amazing how quick your body start to change. I missed my period and took a (early)
home pregnancy test 7 days later and there was a definite positive. It really sounds like your pregnant to me. Did you do a preg. test? If so what were your results? Are you TTC? Lots of Luck to You!!
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Registered: 10-01-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 10:32am
I would take a pregnancy test just to be sure!!! Good luck hun!!!
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Registered: 01-11-2006
Wed, 11-08-2006 - 12:08am

Well, I took a test this morning, and it came up positive right away.

 
   
   Stephanie

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Registered: 10-13-2006
Wed, 11-08-2006 - 10:45am
My only son is now 6 (going to turn 7 on Thanksgiving.) I was only 22 when I got pregnant, and my (now unfortunatly ex) husband had only been married a few months. Very similar situation- no health insurance, no job, and within a month or so of finding out my husband quit his job. Anyhow- because we did not make any money (it still allows for having a job...there are income guidlines) I was able to get on Medicaid. I ended up having complications- was put the bedrest- even was induced 3 weeks early after a two weeks stay at the hospital...everything was paid for by Medicaid. You would have to go to a Medicaid/Medicare office and apply. Then they usually have one or two plans they can put you on. There were also all kinds of different community programs which helped me with food- I highly suggest applying for WIC. They provide you with coupons for free milk, peanut butter...all kinds of stuff. In the case of my (ex) husband, he was apathetic at first about it, but then came around. It could be he is just worried about the financial obligation. I hope this may have been some help. I am now TTC with my new DH... who knows....kinda early but my breasts have been very tender this morning...
LoonyAlana

 

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Registered: 10-30-2006
Wed, 11-08-2006 - 3:58pm
Well Congratulations!! At seven weeks now I still get cramps. I think your job well cover the pregnancy. If you can take a vitamin a day prenatal ones are best. Try not to worry so much take one day at a time. Do what you can do to make things work out for yourself. Look for a healthcenter that offers free prenatal care. I think prenatal care is important. I don't want you to miss any appts. If there is a doc who is able to see you fine it's a start. Stay positve i think your husband will come around and find a job now that your pregnant. We ttc for 18 month so my SO was very happy. Hang in there.
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Registered: 07-12-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 6:40am
I agree with the PP's. When I got PG with DS it was the same. Try to get on medicare, it does pay for everything. It is all based on income. I also got on WIC and it was extreamly helpful. DH will come around just give him time. GL, and keep your head up, Your going to be a MOMMY!

Katie

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Registered: 11-03-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 9:52am

Congrats! You will be in my prayers. Know that God wouldn't give you anything that He didn't think you could handle.

I was in a similar situation at 19 I had just began a new job, no health insurance. The state offered health care for those in need. If you let me know what state you are in I can find out if and where you have a local agency.

As for your husband, if it were me (yes, I am old bitter and scorned) I would throw his ass out and do it all alone. He should be supporting you not you supporting him and any man that reacts to news of a baby in the manner in which he did would have my foot up his ass....well, I know he is your husband and you love him, and I will respect that and I apologize. Will he come around? Hard to say. Usually the shock of them having to grow up or take on this responsibily throws them for a loop but if he still isn't looking for a job to help you and the baby, that should be an indication there.

If you have a church that you attend they may be able to help you or provide you with the resources to get help.

I would not miss or skip any prenatal care. In doing so you may end up with more problems in the future. (a sick child) Which will be much more costly (time from work, dr. bills, meds, etc. Is there a planned parenthood in your city. They can help you. With care, prenatal vitamins, counseling, whatever you may need and they will do it free or at a very low cost. I can understand you wanting to have a doctor you trust and are comfortable with but will you actually be able to see a doctor 45 minutes away? In the last trimester you will be seeing the doctor once a week at least. Sometimes more often. He may only be able to deliver the child in a hospital there and not near your home. Could make for a hard time come delivery.

After your 3rd month you can begin to look at second hand stores and yard sales for gently used baby items that you will need. Get them now and wash them real good and you will be able to save a fortune on baby gear. The only thing I would recommend buying new is a car seat. Don't skimp on quality or safety.

As far as symptoms....every person is different. I would suggest going to your local library and getting "What To Expect When You Are Expecting". Also, tell your Mom. She can be a source of knowledge, strength and maybe some financial support.

Good luck!

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Thu, 11-09-2006 - 11:56am

Stephanie,

I am a big advocate of pro-choice. I know this may seem like an inconvenient time to have a baby but to be honest, NO ONE can truly prepare for the responsibilites of raising a child. When it is meant to be, it will happen and then that's the time to begin prepping for it.

As far as your husband and his initial reaction, I would definitely give him some time to think things over and try to talk with him about his feelings about being a parent. Try to keep the lines of communication open between you two. You will need that more than anything right now.

If your test came up positive and you still haven't gotten your period, nine times out of ten, you are pregnant. Make an appointment at your local women's clinic or the hospital just to confirm this is so. Even without insurance, each state has their own laws and legislations designed to assist women with little to no income in getting the proper maternity care. You should be eligible to receive medicaid or some sort of state insurance that will pay for your prenatal care and the delivery of your baby.

In other words, you have options--don't give up! It will be hard at times but just think of how worth it all of this will be once you have your baby.

Good luck!

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Thu, 11-09-2006 - 11:17pm

Thanks! I agree with you. I'd rather have the baby, and

 
   
   Stephanie