Doctors visit went HORRIBLE!!

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Doctors visit went HORRIBLE!!
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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 11:19pm

Well, I have to do another wait tonite to find out for sure...

I took a urine test and the B * * * * y nurse came back and said to me "Stefanie, this test is as negative and negative can get! I think this is all in your head..."

I AM SORRY FOR WAISTING YOUR TIME!!! Geeze, no compasion at all. Here is a 20 year old in your care and you said that to me?? I called my friend balling my eyes out on my way home. I know my body, I know when something is up, I know my cycle, I'm not crazy!!!!

They have my blood, they should tell me if I am not prego, then what could be wrong. Why am I tired? Why do my boobs have veins that lead to my nipples? Why do I feel light headed at night? Have a touch of nausea here and there. SORRY I DID NOT COME TO THE OFFICE AFTER I MISSED MY PERIOD. AF is two days away for crying out loud.

I have had other troubles at the office too, when I called to talk to the nurse, she said to me "Well Dr. Fisher thinks you are going to get your period at the end of your pill pack so just settle down." First of all its not like i am a raging crazy woman when i call or am hysterical...AM I OVER REACTING? If I am pregnant I am taking myself and my unborn to another office where I am treated like I am not a freak....

Sorry for venting ladies...Now I am going to eat AGAIN for the fourth time today because my tummy is saying feed me.

Baby dust to all, thanks for reading my posts, I think you are amazing and I am kinda sad that if I am not PG I will not have anything to post or read ::Sigh::

Stefanie

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Registered: 09-27-2006
Mon, 12-11-2006 - 11:32pm

OMG!! Definitely find a new doctor...doesn't sound like the nurse or the doctor have any compassion. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You know your body better than anyone else. Good luck to you and get a new doc!!

Annie
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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 12:09am
I would find a new doctor or a midwife. it sounds like they just dont care about their patient's feelings and intuition anymore. i hope it all turns out ok. i had one doctor when i was a teenager and taking bc that told me i gained too much weight that year and the way she said it just made me want to go and eat something fattening.

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 1:00pm

I'm sorry to hear about how inconsiderate that nurse was. As a healthcare professional myself, I know firsthand how jaded some nurses can be about their patient's feelings and conditions. Just ignore her, she probably didn't mean to sound as bitchy as she did. And if something like that happens again, you have EVERY RIGHT to mention it to her, or to her supervisor. If it makes you feel any better, you could call the office and tell them about how inconsiderate of your feelings she was, they should listen.

Anyway, I hope everything turns out all right for you!!

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Tue, 12-12-2006 - 1:30pm

Hello,


I am sorry about your awful experience at the doctors. Some people should not be nurses or doctors!!! I hope you find a better doctor.


Good Luck!


~Lisa

TTC to conceive #1 officially since 2001. Dh had Varicocele surgery 2005 and has low sperm count. Dh tried Clomid..it didnt really help, HSG in 1999 and 2005, Charting since Jan 2006, <

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 5:28pm
they shouldnt be acting like that. you know your body better than they do and you have every right to know what is going on with it. if you still think you are pregnant i would go back to a diff doc for a 2nd opinion and maybe they can figure it out.

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 9:06pm

okay everyone, the results are in...my blood came back negative.

I called my primary care doctor's office and they seemed to be a little bit more sympathetic. My regular care doctor wants me to come in for another blood test because she is concerned that 4 positive tests and no positive blood test. AT LEAST SHE CARES!!!

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 10:04pm
well thats good that she cares. maybe if you are infact pregnant she can refer you to someone else.

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 10:57pm

what do you think the odds are that i am?? no AF yet...i am no longer waisting my money on home pregnancy tests. Kevin was happy that I am not pregnant, which I can understand. We are both so young and a baby right now would not be good for the best of us. I am really sad about this though. I was rubbing my tummy every night before I went to bed. I think I was more in love with the idea of being pregnant, having a cute belling, and holding a beautiful baby in my arms who I would love more than love itself. ::Sigh::

Thanks ladies for all your love and encouragement. I will be back here at the boards when I am ready to be a mommy...in like 5 years or so ::Sigh:: (Again)

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 11:02pm
im not sure what the odds are but if you arent feeling well and think there is something wrong then i would fight to get some real answers. i know the mind can trick you into having symptoms but that may not explain why there is no AF yet. i hope you get some answers soon though.

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Tue, 12-12-2006 - 11:29pm
i know that you can trick your self in to beleiving your pregnant but can i honestly make my self have the hcg hormone?? BLAH!!!

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