don't know what to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2003
don't know what to do?
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Sun, 10-26-2003 - 9:21pm
I got my af on the 9th, on the 23rd a guy I have been casual with for over 2yrs came over and we had sex 2x. My question is...the first time we used a comdom, but then about 20-30min later we didn't but he didn't come, that I'm aware of. He freaked out and said that he probably just got me pg. Is that possible? I used the due date calender from the date of period and it said conception date the 23rd...My family doesn't know that I've been with him, but they do know that we hang out...Don't know what to do? Any help would be appreciated.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 10-26-2003 - 11:16pm
Well it is very possible that you were ovulating at that time, so there is a chance. Being that he had ejaculated about 20 min prior to the next time you were togeather there is a very high chance that there were sperm in the pre-cum. So though there probably wasn't that much there, there were more than likely some. It will all depend on the chances, its hard to say, but you are at risk in this situation. And as you said you don't think that he came, but your no 100%, so he could have. Maybe thats why he made that statement after words. But no matter, try not to stress out, this could only make you think you are...and your mind can certainly make you develop symptoms that you wouldn't otherwise have. So just wait for af to come and try not to worry unless it doesn't show. Good Luck

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