Eee!!!!

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Registered: 05-13-2003
Eee!!!!
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Tue, 10-21-2003 - 8:58pm
Hello

I'm thinking that I may be prego, but I'm not to sure. I'm waiting my af is suppose to come in the next couple of days, but I'm having all the signs that I'm preg.

I mc in June and didn't bother to tell my bf about it, I thought that it would hurt him too much to know that he was going to be a daddy and then I lost the poor little baby.

I'm just afraid about how he will react now to baby, and should I tell him that I mc before?

Please answer.

Eliza~~

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: racconforyou
Tue, 10-21-2003 - 9:16pm
I believe honesty is always the best policy. You can say things tactfully of course but there might come a point where you are with the doc and your BF and the doc asks about previous M/c's or pregnancies. What are you going to do? Lie to the doc? I know you wnat to protect him - but I think the truth always wins out and he will be hurt just as much as you were when it happened but he'll ( and you) have a shoulder to lean on and cry on.