feeling down :(

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feeling down :(
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Tue, 08-19-2003 - 10:43pm
Hey ladies, nothing really important, just feeling a little down today. I was in a great mood, but it just changed, and now im just blah, and i wanna cry. I'm really emotional, and i don't know why. I spent the day shopping, so you know it was good. I just don't know what's up with me. I've been stressing myself over whether or not im pg, and so the stress may be a factor in all of this. I'm extremely tired, seems like all the time, and its not like i don't get any sleep, i get 8 or somewhere clost to that every night. I don't know. I just wanted to get that out, you know vent. Hopefully someone cares. :)

~kandis~
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Tue, 08-19-2003 - 10:52pm
Oh sweety i know just how you feel... I feel like that just about everyday.. Sucks.. You hang in there..Things will get better.. I should take my own advice sometimes.. at least we all have eachother to vent on and look to for support.. It helps....

Cara

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Registered: 08-09-2003
Tue, 08-19-2003 - 11:04pm
Hey Kandis! I know how you feel. I'm feeling kinda the same way now. I had a somewhat good day, nothing very exciting. Towards the end of the day, I started feeling down. When I got home, I just laid down thinking I could go to sleep and when I wake up Thursday would be here and I can take the blood test and see what's going on with me, but I can't go to sleep. I feel very restless. This waiting is killing me. I can't talk to my husband about it, because he thinks it is all in my head. Know that you have someone right there beside you going through the same thing. Stay encouraged and know everything will work out. I hope that helped in some way.

Best Wishes!!

Robin


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Registered: 08-07-2003
Tue, 08-19-2003 - 11:43pm
Aw, Kandis, you and I are very similar :(

I have been down, too, lately. Exhausted, extremely emotional, and VERY stressed over this whole ping-pong type "Pregnant" "Not Pregnant" thing... I am tired as hell right now and feeling just as depressed.

I hope you start to feel better. If there's anything I can do just let me know!!

<3

Jen

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Wed, 08-20-2003 - 9:33am
The hardest part about all of this, is that i can't even talk to my dh, at all. He is on a 10 day deployment, and he won't even be back stateside until friday night. even when he does get back, i won't be able to do anything but talk to him on the phone, b/c he's 16 hours away from me right now. I feel like im doing this all by myself, i know im not, but that lingering feeling of lonliness is so persistant. I don't ever let things get me down, im a very happy optimistic woman, just when it comes to having to be away from him like this all the time, i can't help but get a little down. I know that i shouldn't hate the navy for what it puts me through, but i guess it makes me feel better when i have something to blame for my sadness. I just have to keep telling myself only a year and a half, and then we're done. No more being apart. Thanks for listening, i really appreciate it.

~kandis~
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Registered: 08-13-2003
Wed, 08-20-2003 - 11:18am
Hi Kandis & Robin,

I talked to you last week about being confused and waiting and I am still right here with you! I know how you both feel, it is so hard waiting and not knowing one way or the other what's going on. Today is day 44 for me, my doctor told me last week to wait and take a test this morning (Wed) so I did and it is still negative. I'm going crazy. Keep me posted and I'll keep my fingers crossed for all of us!

-Amy
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Wed, 08-20-2003 - 11:45am
I do understand..My b/f is in the Army,and he goes out on training missions all the time..He came be gone for months at a time and i hate it..Now he might be going to Afghanistan in a few months..I think i will just die....My exhusband is going to Afghanistan soon (glad i'm not still married to him)... Its very hard doing it all alone..Thats why its important to have a support system..Hang in there..We are here for you..

Cara

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Thu, 08-21-2003 - 9:24am
Well good news is that sometime late tonight, my dh will once again be stateside. :) I'm very happy about that, i miss him terribly. Though i won't get to see him, just hearing his voice will put me at ease. Thank you all for the support, it means a lot to me. I wish us all the best of luck!! Baby dust********! :) best wishes

~kandis~