He is in denial!!!

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Registered: 12-08-2006
He is in denial!!!
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Sat, 12-09-2006 - 1:22am

Blood test on monday, I am not looking forward to that. Faint, very very faint lines on the tests only when seen when held up to the lights.

I am bloated, spotty, crampy, tired, with a touch of nausea. Aunt flo is due this week, but honestly have never had PMS symptoms like that.

My boyfriend doesnt even want to talk about it. So what the hell am I suppose to do on monday when the doctor asks me what are my plans?? Anyone?? Him and i got into a huge fight.

::Cries:: I dont want to do this myself!!!

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Registered: 07-01-2005
Sat, 12-09-2006 - 1:34am

i am so sorry. men can be so insensitive to these things. my older DS's father and i were fighting all through my pregnancy partly because of his drug use. i collapsed once after a fight and i lived alone without him at the time. we are no longer together but we still try to be friends for the sake of our son. try to relax maybe he will come around after you get a for sure answer and if he doesnt you dont need to go through it alone. im sure anyone here will be happy to talk to you and there are message boards for women due in the same month you should be. just curious, how old are you and him?

angela
cljsjuliet@yahoo.com (add me if you want)

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Sat, 12-09-2006 - 1:55am
too young, age 20 the both of us...
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Sat, 12-09-2006 - 2:00am
i was 21 when i had my first son. it can be tough to go it alone but you can do it. just try to relax until you have your blood work done. good luck. i was scared to raise a child on my own but my parents were kind enough to let me and my son move in with them until i could get back on my feet and it really helped having them there if i needed a sitter so i could go back to school.

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Sat, 12-09-2006 - 10:07pm
HI! First off, don't freak out until you find out FOR SURE!! Then decide whether you are ready and willing to go through raising a baby. Ask yourself if you want the baby. Think long and hard and listen to your heart. Your head and your heart are more than likely going to be telling you 2 different things. If you decide that you aren't ready to be a mommy...give adoption a thought. I am PRO-LIFE so I NEVER think abortion is an option. Why not give a baby to a loving couple that can't have one. I know my DH and I wish that there were some more ladies willing to give their baby a life rather than taking the easy way out by killing their child. Anyways, think long and hard before you decide what is right for YOU...no one else. I first got preggo at 19 and I miscarried. I was devastated. I was a partier and I basically killed my baby with alcohol not knowing that I was preggo. That was the hardest thing to live with for me. I am going to be 26 on Tuesday and I still haven't been able to get preggo again since that. So its tough...but there are couples out there willing to give a gorgeous little baby a home...no questions asked.