HELP ME!!!

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Registered: 08-12-2013
HELP ME!!!
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Mon, 08-12-2013 - 9:53pm

hello,


I am on the verge of freaking out hardcore.  Okay, so I have not yet had my period and it is a few days due.  Okay, so the last time I had my period was July 8-12 (it was that week - not sure when it ended.. but it is close). Anyways, I had sex with my fiance for the first time on July 27-28th (night). We did not use any protection and it was because we were both intoxicated.  He does not know if anything happened and neither do I.  I am not sure when you have the chance of getting pregnant.  I am hoping that if I gave you the timeline of my period and when we had sex you could help me figure it out.

 

Last night I could not sleep.. I was sweating a bit and I feel like I have a temperature.  But that could be because of the lack of sleep I got this weekend.  I don't know.

Thanks.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-26-1999
Tue, 08-13-2013 - 9:02am

Depending on your normal ovulation timing, there is a chance you could become pregnant with that time line.  I think the best thing for you to do is either wait it out a few more days or go buy a home pregnancy test and take one.

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 08-13-2013 - 9:20am

Hi there,

I agree with Tracy.  It is a possibility you could have become pregnant during that time.  At this point, you may want to grab a home pregnancy test so that you can put your mind at ease one way or another.  Let us know what you decide to do! 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2013
Tue, 08-13-2013 - 9:08pm

Hi

I did two tests tonight and they were both negative.  I have one left and I plan on doing it early Friday. Could the tests be correct?  I read places that they yield negative results and yet they were indeed positive. Today I constantly felt sick and I am not hungry at all.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-26-1999
Wed, 08-14-2013 - 1:40pm
Usually even early pregnancy tests need 7-10 days after implantation to give you a positive result. I would hold off until Sunday honestly and if your period still hasn't come then maybe call your dr on Monday. They usually want you to be more than a week or two late before they'll entertain any ideas. It may just be that you indeed had a late ovulation and so the hormones are not strong enough yet to yield a positive pregnancy test. But there are some women that do not ever get a positive pregnancy test during their 9 month pregnancy. And in that case, your OB would need to do an ultrasound to confirm pregnancy.
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Registered: 08-12-2013
Wed, 08-14-2013 - 6:11pm
Hello, well that is not promising. :( Last night I did not sweat as much as I did previously. So maybe the other two nights I sweat bad because I was scared or something? My friend thinks I am late because it was the first time I ever had sex and I could just be freaking out so much that it will delay my period. I was thinking about going to the doctors on Friday to get a blood test done. Could the blood test yield results right now if I were to take one? Or does it take some time for it to come up in that test? Thanks.
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Registered: 08-12-2013
Wed, 08-14-2013 - 10:17pm

I would like to add that I started to have toothaches.  Is this normal?  I am really hoping I am not pregnant.  We are not ready for a baby.  We started planning our wedding.  If I am pregnant... would I be able to put the baby up for adoption? I know it is selfish, but we really cannot have a child at this point in our life.

Thanks.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-26-1999
Thu, 08-15-2013 - 3:41pm
Adoption is always an option if the birth father agrees to it, and if you are planning a life together, I would assume you would be in it together. As for the toothaches, I can't help you there. I am not sure if the doctor's office blood test would give you results or not this early. I would honestly just relax and wait until Monday and if AF still hasn't arrived, then call your doctor's office and ask them what they suggest. Hugs, keep us posted!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2013
Thu, 08-15-2013 - 7:54pm

Hello,

I will keep you posted. I just have a quick question - my finace was not "completely" inside me if that makes any sense.  Is there a chance that I could get pregnant?  Would he have to be completely inside me for it to take effect?

Thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2013
Fri, 08-16-2013 - 5:43pm

good news: I got a blood test done yesterday and they called me back today with results: it came back negative! now, I still have doubts though because I do not have my period yet. are blood tests 100% accuarate? I got the test done 7 days after my period was due. so I am still just paranoid.  my fiance thinks I am missing my period for two reasons:

1.) it was the first time we ever had sex (we been together for 5 years). he thinks I am working myself up for it.
2.) I have been spending 4 days a week working out. 2 days a week, I workout hardcore and I read that working out could delay my period.

also, I would like to say that my doctor was kind of sacastic to me when I went to take the blood test - she was like well you should be using protection when you have sex if you do not want to have a child. blah blah. it just made me feel like crap. Frown

hopefully, I can finally get some sleep over this result and I hope that it is correct!!!!

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Registered: 05-20-2013
In reply to: ACDCjunkie
Thu, 09-26-2013 - 9:46am

You did what any woman would do, freaked out a little. And yes, stress and hard workouts can delay your periods, I've had a few scares myself just to find out it was stress induced and AF came within the next week. Blood tests can detect hcg pretty early so the blood test is probably correct but if you're still stressed, wait a little while (though since I'm just now getting to you, you've probably already done all this). And don't worry about the doctor. They always are a bit cynical. Intoxication causes a lot of pregnancies and it's not like you'll break out of the buzz to tell your fiance to put on a condom them fall back into it. They don't seem to understand this. I find that the most sympathetic ones have had children unexpectedly and understand the situation. Keep your head up. When you decide you're ready for a baby, then things will fall into place. My son was unexpected b/c I'd had an abortion the month prior and we weren't, technically speaking, supposed to be having sex yet. Times like this I call Divine Intervention.

A.C