how did you feel?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2003
how did you feel?
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Thu, 10-16-2003 - 4:43pm
hey!! i'm new here and i just have a quick question. i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. my period isn't due for a week. thing is, since then, i've felt really crampy and bloated, and kind of sick. it feels almost like i'm due to start my period. then the other day i spotted a bit, but it wasn't normal spotting. i'd really like some advice bc i don't know what to do. i went into the school clinic and got a test done and it came out negative. but i still feel crampy. any advice for me?

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Registered: 10-16-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 10:58am
if my AF doesn't come, then i am definately taking another test. but i have a week to wait. actually, my BF does have a clue that i could be pg. i told him friday that i thought there was a possibility that i could be pg. he told me he's not an a$$hole and would definately stay with me bc he loves me. i am lucky that i have such an amazing guy. but u r right, it wouldn't be a good time. however, i was working it out in my mind, even though it might not be a good time, i could still cope with school and stuff. let me know ASAP the results of your test!!
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Registered: 10-05-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 3:33pm
the wait is a killer....

yeah i think we're both lucky to have good guys by our side....

well.....i took a test this morning....i was over my BF house at the time....we were both soooo nervous....he said he was afraind that things would change if the results are negative....he thought that it would give me reason not to hold on to him as strong....of course i told him he's crazy.....

well, it was time to take the test.....and the results was negative.....big letdown.....but i've been PG from him before.....i normally waited 1 week late to test....so we'll wait a few more days....or at least try to....i told him something has to be going on since i'm now 4 days late......i do want to be PG though since 've gotten my hopes up....i took an EPT (which i always use) but it may still be too early for that test....so we'll see....

yeah it's going to be tough....for me and you both (and the daddies-to-be, if that's the case), but we'll manage.....like i said, i've been PG before and i had an abortion (BIG mistake).....but if i am this one is definitely for keeps....so i have my fingers crossed....

let me know what happens with you too.....try to get one of those sensitive test..... :)


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Registered: 10-16-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 3:37pm
what kind of test should i get? i don't know which ones are good and which would be a waste of money. also, i prolly won't be on here very much in the next few days, but my e-mail is currentlynotlabelled@yahoo.ca if u want to get in touch.

good luck with you!! i hope things work out!

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Registered: 10-05-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 3:45pm
i got an EPT test....but everyone else says that different test work better....like First Response Early Detect....Answer....other women order them online and they detect very low amounts of HCG.....

i only get on here to check messages form females i chit chat with, so i'll definitely be emailing you to keep in touch....

good luck to you too.....

you can email me @ sexislimmia@aol.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 3:50pm
thanks so much!! i don't really have anyone i can talk to who understands what i'm going through. i am the first only one of my friends to have a pg scare, and even though he's really understanding and loving, my BF doesn't know what i'm feeling. it also doesn't help the fact that i live with my parents (who don't know about my BF), who would prolly flip their lid if they ever found out. they are very much "no sex before marriage" ppl.
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Registered: 10-05-2003
Mon, 10-20-2003 - 6:43pm
our situations are soooo similar....sent you an email....

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