how do I tell???

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2003
how do I tell???
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Tue, 10-28-2003 - 2:41am
Ok... Hypothetically for now... lets say I do turn out to be pregnant... How do i tell the father? I dont want to say anything before I know for sure if i am. But how would i go about that? I cant just say, hey guess what... I know you have a girl, but Im pregnant with your baby!!! I dont think that will go over well... any suggestions?
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 10-28-2003 - 8:00am
Why would that not go over well? Was he at the conception? What do you mean he has a girl? Does he have a little girl or a girlfriend? I am assuming that you mean that this would not be good news for him. Just come right out and tell him. Hold your head up high and do not let him upset you.

Tammy

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2003
Tue, 10-28-2003 - 10:34am
well i would just be honest from the start. although i would wait till you know for sure before mentioning it to him. i read your other post and i a wanted to ask when your period is due?( if you do not mind) my period is due on 11/05-11/06. i am going crazy having to wait. so i know how you feel. i think i might try one of those early results tests on monday. i have heard they my not be all that accurate but i can not wait. hang in there girl. my son was a surprise and i think that was so much easier for me cause i hate being held in such suspense. michele
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Registered: 10-27-2003
Tue, 10-28-2003 - 1:48pm
When I said he has a girl, I meant a GF. And its not that it wont be good news for him, its that its going to complicate his life. Not that my life isnt already in turmoil. I am expecting my Period the same date you are. 11/05, 11/06. Im going nuts. This waiting sucks. I am going to wallmart to buy HPT on Thrusday when i get paid. Then its a matter of actually contacting him. He is very difficult to get a hold of, because he is never home and his cell phone has poor reception down in Mayopak where his GF lives. I know he will be happy and excited about the baby... Its the rest of his life that's going to upset him.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2003
Wed, 10-29-2003 - 3:28pm
HI MESHELL MY PERIOD IS DUE THE SAME TIME AS YOURS! IM VERY IMPATIENT, SO IM PATIENT THAT I WANT TO GO TAKE A BLOOD TEST.... BUT I CAN WAIT. I MIGHT GO TAKE AN EPT TEST ON MONDAY SO I WILL KNOW AND CALM DOWN A LIL LOL! SO KEEP ME POSTED ANS I WILL DO THE SAME. SHAVON