I need help, I'm Confussed
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I need help, I'm Confussed
| Tue, 10-21-2003 - 6:21pm |
Ok, well, guess what, this has to do with pregnancy.
I'm not a slut or anything like that, but in fact just lost my virginity this year with my boyfriend. We are very much devoted to each other, so we made a decition.
Now I am confussed... I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not... I obviously don't want to be, as I am only 18 and still live at home, and to boot, my parents don't know I am sexualy active with him...
Yes, I reffuse to have sex unless we use condoms. But yes, I have heard their are still risks if two play around without one, without actually having intercourse though too.
But, right now, I am very scared. I have a tendancy to get my period late -the latest I can recall is at 39 days. Right now, I am at 36 days, with nothing.... but I do have one possible sign, which is scaring me...
I have stomach problems, I must add, as they really mess with me, but just today, and yesturday, I've been having cramps as if I had my period. But still...nothing, no period...
I am highly stressed and scared, and don't know what to do...
If my mom was to find out, I know she would think less of me, so getting her or anyone who would tell her is not an option....
My boyfriend tell me not to worry, and we made sure that the condoms didn't break, so I shouldn't worry so much, but... I can't help it, I'm trully freaking out over here...
Can anyone send me some comfort or help?
I'm not a slut or anything like that, but in fact just lost my virginity this year with my boyfriend. We are very much devoted to each other, so we made a decition.
Now I am confussed... I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not... I obviously don't want to be, as I am only 18 and still live at home, and to boot, my parents don't know I am sexualy active with him...
Yes, I reffuse to have sex unless we use condoms. But yes, I have heard their are still risks if two play around without one, without actually having intercourse though too.
But, right now, I am very scared. I have a tendancy to get my period late -the latest I can recall is at 39 days. Right now, I am at 36 days, with nothing.... but I do have one possible sign, which is scaring me...
I have stomach problems, I must add, as they really mess with me, but just today, and yesturday, I've been having cramps as if I had my period. But still...nothing, no period...
I am highly stressed and scared, and don't know what to do...
If my mom was to find out, I know she would think less of me, so getting her or anyone who would tell her is not an option....
My boyfriend tell me not to worry, and we made sure that the condoms didn't break, so I shouldn't worry so much, but... I can't help it, I'm trully freaking out over here...
Can anyone send me some comfort or help?

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