I want to CRY! Please read!!!!

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Registered: 07-26-2003
I want to CRY! Please read!!!!
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 8:13am
Okay, night before last and yesterday afternoon, dh and I had sex. Yesterday evening, after I went to the RR, I noticed VERY light pink on the toilet paper. It was baby pink, not red tinged or brown. I am known to spot before AF, but its always dark. I also had the big "O" (sorry TMI maybe, but keep reading lol) and when I was pregnant with Dylan, when I had an orgasm, I always spotted.....I don't remember how soon I did that tho. If it's AF coming, how do you explain the obvious physical changes I am having? My BB's are somewhat sore (tingly) and my aerola is noticeably wider, nipples are darker, veins, and Montgomery's tubalures (sp). Is my body just being cruel or what?! I know I am not hallucinating the changes. The other symptoms (peeing, fatigue (just recently), pelvic twinges, stuffy nose, and moodiness) can be rationlized to an extent, but the physically obvious has no explaination. So you can see why I just KNEW I was preggo. This is number 4 (not that that makes me a pro or anything) and you would think I wouldn't be so obsessed. My question is, do you think its AF coming or my cervix just being affected by sex? Its too late for IB isnt it? I never had IB with the other 3. Im just feeling so crushed and confused. Today is 11dpo. PLEASE write me back with some opinions. I really need you ladies :( TIA Oh and I also had the pink/peach tinged discharge this morning, but not alot.

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 9:32am
Kelly,

You appear extrememly strong and caring. When you see that BFP, that baby will be one lucky boy/girl!!! I am praying for you a BFP with all my might! I just "re-checked" and there is barely any spotting. It was never enough to even get on my panties, so who knows what's happening. I will retest if this doesn't get any worse. But I have to say, my hopes are disappearing. Much luck and luv to you! TY!
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Registered: 07-30-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 9:52am
I don't have any wisdom to give, I just wanted to send you a BIG HUG!

D.T.
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 10:01am
Don't worry. I get the same spotting every single time I have sex. I have a very sensitive cervix :0 Maybe your cervix happended to be lower than normal so you had some abrasion. The spotting can last for up to 3 days and is not always present when you wipe. Also is pinkish at first and then turns darker and may have small clots. Sorry TMI just want to set your mind to rest. I doubt your period is here and if you don't expect it for a few days your PG test would most likely come out BFN. I'm 3 days late now but afraid to test. No symptoms of anything yet except some nausea (probably in my head:) Anyway, good luck to you!!
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 10:02am
Your Welcome! Any time, I'm always on line during the day, and most evenings if you want to chat.
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:37am
rcc:

Thank you so much sweetie. I am praying it is IB or my cervix. I am sending TONS of BABY DUST to you RIGHT NOW! ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ I just took a shower and whenI washed I saw nothing. But went potty a minute ago and there was pinkish/rust color on the tissue. Thank you so much once again and please remember me in your prayers/thoughts......and I will you :)
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:39am
D.T.

That was EXTEMELY sweet of you. Made me smile :) Thank you so much!
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:44am
whimsey:

You described EXACTLY what I am going thru! Now it looks pink/rust in color. I never start this early. I will retest in the morning *maybe*. Thank you SO much for replying. It made a world of difference hearing I'm not alone in this. Please keep me updated on you, I wish ONLY the best for you, and ofcourse BIG ++++++!!! All of you are just so wonderful. I thank God I found this group! BABY DUST to all that need it!

Love, Shoobie

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:46am
I am on alot......feel free to write me ANYTIME sweetie! SCShoobie@aol.com
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 2:45pm
Good luck to you!!! Hope you get that BFP. I'm still trying to hold off testing - It's driving me NUTS - but I spent a fortune a few months ago on HPTs.

Still nothing. No AF or Af symptoms yet and I'm 3 days late:) I was a week early with AF last month so now I'm afraid I'll be a week late. I Dread going potty - don't want to see AF. LOL Hoping I have good Karma this month. Due date would be on my Fathers bday and he passed on the day my son was born :( Saw his picture via email and passed away that night. Would love to have a baby on his Bday! Wish me luck. Take care and don't worry about the spotting until you get a full AF!
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Registered: 07-29-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 3:42pm
Hey - I got your message and read your story here. Sounds like it could be 'any of the above' If I were you - I would stick to the 'lower than usual cervix'. Sounds like a good possibility.

As for myself, starting to feel a bit crampy today, so I guess that is my AF which is due on Thursday?...

Keep your chin up - and test on Thursday -- look what happend to jhtiggerbounce.

-A

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