I'm new, and need advice

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Registered: 08-05-2003
I'm new, and need advice
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 1:14pm
I'm 23, and I just had a miscarriage last week...I didn't even know I was pregnant. Now that I've miscarried I don't know whether or not to tell the man who would have been a father. When I fould out, I felt like I had been cheated out of getting to enjoy even those few weeks of actually having life inside me, so I feel like he has the right to know, but on the other hand maybe I would just be complicating things unnecessarily. I just don't know what to do
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Registered: 07-11-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 1:55pm
I guess it depends on your relationship. Some men get freaked out by these things and it may cause distance between you. If it was me, I would probably just keep it to myself. However, allow yourself to grieve. You obviously feel a sense of loss-don't deny yourself that.

Good Luck,

Teresa