im scared

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Registered: 10-27-2003
im scared
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Mon, 10-27-2003 - 4:34am
My fiancee and i were fooling around two weeks ago exactly. His penis was out and it rubbed against my private area for a while. But I had very thin pj's and a thong on. He didnt ejaculate and we didnt have sex. But still his precum fluid was all over my pj's. And he had been pressing hard all night. AM I PREGNANT? He was pressing right on 'that spot' where i like it. He wasnt inside me at all though. Im freaking out because I dont want a baby this soon.


Everything seems like im pregnant. After researching online i have started to notice that my back hurts. My breasts are slightly tender. I have cramps. These are all subtle things and im probably just imagining them. I hope i am. I dont know what to make of it.


IM SCARED. SOME ONE OUT THERE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE OTHER THAN JUST TAKING A PREGNANCY TEST.

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: andriagirl
Mon, 10-27-2003 - 6:46am
According to your story, it seems very unlikely that you are pregnant. If there was no intercourse, then, you are cannot be pregnant. You are probably just feeling PMS symptoms and your period should show up soon. If it doesn't, then, sorry hun but only real way to know is to take a home pregnancy test (or see your doctor). But again, you are probably NOT!
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: andriagirl
Mon, 10-27-2003 - 8:46am
You more than likely are NOT pregnant. All of those barriers helped protect you. I did want to correct something that the post before mine said. There DOES NOT have to be acctual intercourse for pregnancy to occur. If there is any deposit of semen at the vagina opening, pregnancy CAN occur. If you do not want to get pregnant be careful of any semen getting in that area. Another thing that I wanted to tell you is that if you are worried about it and you research symptoms, your mind can make those symptoms happen. So, do a pregnancy test and when it says that you are not pregnant, believe it and relax. Good Luck to you.

Tammy

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: andriagirl
Mon, 10-27-2003 - 9:40am
Tammy,

Thank you for correcting my previous post. What I was trying to convey is if his penis never entered her AT ALL (pj, underwear barrier) then there is no way she'd be pregnant. I guess the word "intercourse" was just easier to use. Should of been more specific though.

Regards.